You will never fully trust yourself Dear One, if you never give yourself the opportunity to prove to yourself that you are trustworthy.

And there is only one way for you to do that.

You are not meant to have all of the answers Dear One.

You are meant to have an imperfect experience of living, just like everyone else.

So have fun, let yourself off the hook, and remember to be gentle and forgiving of yourself along the way.

OK?

•  Choose what comes in
• Choose what goes out

• Choose to hold on
• Choose to let go

• Choose what you want more of
• Choose what you want less of

• Choose what is worthy of your attention
• Choose what to ignore

• Choose what matters
• Choose what does not

Your choices are the breathe of your life Dear One.

They sustain you. They nourish you.  They replenish or deplete.

They determine the pace, quality and depth of the days, months and years of your life.

Like your breath Dear One, your choices are more powerful when given the benefit of your full attention.

What are you doing it all for Dear One if not for the pleasure of it?

What’s the big deal about saying I can’t?

We’ll tell you.

Once you decide that you can’t Dear One, once you make up your mind and choose to believe this as your truth, it will become your truth.  And when it does, doors will immediately begin to disappear from your sight as a result.

Once you decide that you can’t Dear One, you cut yourself off from countless possibilities, you cut yourself off from so many experiences that are and always have been available to  you.

And once that happens Dear One, you are no longer able to see the world as it really is – infinite.  You are no longer able to see the truth of your reality, the truth that that anything is possible –  and your worldview begins to get smaller.  And the smaller it gets Dear One, the more cut off you feel.  And the more cut off you feel, the more you close doors.  And the more you encounter closed doors, the more you begin to experience and believe in a reality defined by your self imposed limitations.  And the more that that happens, the harder it becomes for you remember what the world looks like and feels like when anything was possible.

So yes Dear One, saying I can’t is a very big deal.

Please don’t do so lightly.

How do you get everything that you want Dear One?

Love, value and appreciate everything that you already have.

Start by getting happy Dear One.

And if that is not possible, start with a smile.

Before you take one more step, before you make one more decision, do something, anything, big or small, that brings joy to your heart and puts a smile on your face.

Any action taken from a place of joy, a place of hope, a good feeling place, will always yield far better and more productive results than any taken from a place of fear, frustration, distrust, hesitance, anger, concern, guilt, stress, sadness or grief.

When in doubt Dear One, remember that joy is always a great place to begin.

Take notice Dear One.

• Are you allowing love to flow into your life or are you are resisting it, holding yourself apart from it?
• Are you allowing healing are you are resisting it?
• Are you allowing abundance or are you are resisting it?
• Are you allowing well-being or are you are resisting it?
• Are you allowing joy, happiness, pleasure or are you are resisting them?

If you are not doing one Dear One, you are doing the other.

Never wonder “If” Dear One, only wonder “How”, “When” and “With whom”.

There are two ways that you can choose to respond to any situation Dear One:

• Like a powerless child
• Like the powerful creator that you are.

Which will you choose today?