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What do you want to know about your soul’s agenda?
On: A relationship to-do list
- Be kind
- Be caring
- Be complementary
- Be truthful
- Be sincere
- Be thoughtful in all you say and do
- Be compassionate and forgiving
- Be honest
- Be respectful
- Be open minded
- Release expectations
- Encourage passions
- Acknowledge feelings
- Have lots of fun
These are just some of the things that you do for someone that you love, Dear One.
And we would like to encourage you to start doing them all, for yourself.
On: We know that you know
We know that you know who you are, Dear One.
And we know that you know what you are capable of.
How do we know that you know?
Because the answer to both is whatever you decide that it is.
Remember that while you are making up your mind.
On: Running late
NOTE TO SELF:
If you are already running late, Dear One, if you are already behind schedule, or the deadline has been missed, rushing, hurrying, being scattered, frantic, angry, short tempered and stressed out about it, is not going to fix it, undo it, or magically make it better in any way, shape or form.
But calming down, collecting yourself, being grounded, centered, and fully present and aware as you continue to make your way just might!
On: Your worth
No one can tell you what you are worth, Dear One.
It just doesn’t work that way. You have to tell them.
And you do, everyday.
You tell them with every choice that you make, with every word that you speak, and with every action that you take.
On: Why you should forgive them
Forgive them for their mistakes, Dear One, their shortcomings, their faults, their ignorance, and their impatience.
Forgive their actions when they react out of fear, their words when they respond from pain, their behaviors when they get defensive, and their callousness when they are cruel.
They are not perfect. They are deeply flawed. They are hurting, healing, learning, and coping the best way that they know how. Believe it or not, they are actually doing the very best that they believe that they are capable of.
They are imperfect, Dear One – just like you.
Forgive them without expectation, without condition, without question and without hesitation.
Why?
Because doing so is one of the most powerful healing gifts that you can give to yourself.
On: Confronting your past
Childhood is over, Dear One. You are no longer a little person living within an environment that you have seemingly no control over. You are an adult and whether you believe it or not, you are able to make decisions for yourself.
When faced with a trial that requires you to face your past, remember that whatever it is, it is no longer your current reality. You don’t have to bring it back into the present moment with you if you choose not to. Others might approach you on the subject with energy, impressions or patterns that existed back then. It may still be their reality. That doesn’t mean that it has to continue to be yours.
Remember at those moments, that you can choose not to dive right back into old patterns with them. You can choose to stay right where you are, in the present moment and deal with the situation from where you now stand. Just because they are choosing to engage in old patterns, does not mean that you have to join them in this practice.
When facing the past, Dear One, anchor yourself in the present first, for that is the only place from where you can impact change. KNOW that what you have learned and accomplished for yourself since that time, no one can take away from you, ever.
In the present, you get to decide what your past means to you. You can assign a lot of meaning to it or no meaning at all. That is completely up to you and only you.
On: Grudges
Why hold on to a grudge, Dear One, when there are so many other more pleasant things out there that you can choose to hold on to instead?
On: Where to find help
Start by asking yourself this first, Dear One:
Do you really need help, or do you simply need to remember just how strong, capable, resilient, and powerful you are?
The reason we are asking is to help you figure out if this is going to be an outside job or an inside job.
It will be much easier for you to find the help you are looking for if you know where it is that you need to begin your search.
On: It’s not them, it’s you
- You are the only one choosing the thoughts that you think.
- You are the only one choosing the actions that you take.
- You are the only one choosing the beliefs that you hold, the words that you speak, and the attitude with which you approach your life and all of the people in it.
It’s all you, Dear One, not them.
So why not decide that starting today that you are only going to choose the supportive ones, the positive ones, the loving ones, the confident ones, the compassionate, forgiving, and inspired ones that make you feel good instead?
On: The reality of fear
Fear exists nowhere, Dear One, except within your mind.
- Does that make it any less real?
- Does that make it any less powerful?
- Does that make it any less of a limiting or destructive force in your life?
The truth is that yes, it does, if you decide that it does.