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What do you want to know about your soul’s agenda?
On: Being judged
Don’t worry so much about being judged, Dear One.
Don’t worry so much about what they may think of you.
We wouldn’t even give it a second thought.
We wouldn’t even be a little nervous thinking about what they may think of you.
But what should make you nervous, Dear One, is what you think of you; is your opinion of you.
Because if it’s not good, if it’s not positive, if your opinion of you is not wonderful, if you can’t see in you even a small spark of the divine, and feel some sense of confidence knowing it is there, then their opinion of you is the least of your troubles.
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On: Why make the effort?
Why bother doing all that you can, Dear One, when you can get by doing just enough?
Why bother doing the right the thing when no one really seems to care or to even be paying attention?
Why bother trusting, and making the harder, braver, more challenging choice when you’ve got something to lose?
Why bother putting in the extra effort to be thoughtful, generous, loving, persistent, patient, forgiving, and kind when it is not requested, required or expected?
Because what you put out into the world, Dear One, is what you get back.
(Although not necessarily from the same energetic pot that you contributed to, so keep your eyes, ears, and heart open, because it could come back to you in any number of surprisingly unexpected ways.)
That’s why.
On: Doing without
We want you to have it all, Dear One. We want to you to know it all, and do it all too.
We want you to be happy. We want you to know joy. We want you to know abundance, confidence, excitement, inspiration, awe, affection and love.
We want you to know every pleasure that there is Dear One, from feeling the sand between your toes, to a lover between your thighs, from something sweet on you tongue, to the sweet rush of adrenaline that comes from taking a risk, from trying something new, and everything in-between.
And we want you know it all Dear One, we want you to do it all without fear, without judgment, without guilt, without remorse, without resistance, without doubt, without hesitation, and without question.
Do you think that you can do that?
Do you think that you can allow yourself to enjoy all that there is to enjoy in this life without all of these things?
Are you ready to start doing without?
On: In this moment
In this moment, Dear One, you can choose to love a little more, to be a little kinder, to be braver, to take a chance, to let it go.
You can choose to be confident, to make a different choice, to change your expectations.
You can choose to take better care of yourself, to honor yourself, to respect yourself, to forgive yourself, and to do the same for those around you.
In this moment, Dear One, you can choose the life that you want.
Now will you?
On: A change of heart
Don’t spend your time waiting, pleading, bargaining, trying to convince them to have a change of heart, Dear One.
The only heart that you have the power to change is your own.
On: Lessening your troubles
Are you troubled by what is, Dear One, or by your anticipation of what might, could, may, someday, possibly come to pass?
It is worth taking a moment to figure out, because the answer just may provide you with a great deal of immediate relief.
Are you anticipating less than desirable outcomes, unpleasant circumstances or unwanted results?
If you are going to project yourself into the future via your thoughts, why not project yourself into a future that is pleasant, wonderful, joyous, balanced, prosperous, full of love and that feels good?
If you get to choose the thoughts that you think, which oh by the way you do, why would you choose to imagine yourself anywhere but where it is you really want to be?
Change your thoughts, Dear One, and you just may find that you have much less to be troubled about than you originally thought you did.
On: A relationship to-do list
- Be kind
- Be caring
- Be complementary
- Be truthful
- Be sincere
- Be thoughtful in all you say and do
- Be compassionate and forgiving
- Be honest
- Be respectful
- Be open minded
- Release expectations
- Encourage passions
- Acknowledge feelings
- Have lots of fun
These are just some of the things that you do for someone that you love Dear One.
And we would like to encourage you to start doing them all, for yourself.
On: Why you can’t quit
You can’t quit, Dear One.
- Not because you shouldn’t.
- Not because you couldn’t
- Not because it’s a sign of weakness, failure or an admittance of guilt or incompetence if you do
You can’t quit because whatever it is you are trying to get away from by quitting is not going to go away until you deal with it, confront it, face it, handle it, learn from it, address it head on. It will keep coming back, in one form or another, again and again and again, until you do.
When it comes down to it, quitting really is nothing more than a delay tactic.
It is a defeatist act rooted in frustration, desperation and a belief in powerlessness, and it resolves nothing
But making a conscious decision to walk away, choosing to make a different choice, an empowered choice, now that is an entirely different story altogether.
On: Laying down your sword
Don’t fight your heart, Dear One, follow it.
Lay down your sword.
There are some battles that are just not worth winning.
On: Feelings
Remember, Dear One, an emotion is something that you feel, it is not something that defines who you are.