On: A change of heart
Don’t spend your time waiting, pleading, bargaining, trying to convince them to have a change of heart, Dear One.
The only heart that you have the power to change is your own.
On: Lessening your troubles
Are you troubled by what is, Dear One, or by your anticipation of what might, could, may, someday, possibly come to pass?
It is worth taking a moment to figure out, because the answer just may provide you with a great deal of immediate relief.
Are you anticipating less than desirable outcomes, unpleasant circumstances or unwanted results?
If you are going to project yourself into the future via your thoughts, why not project yourself into a future that is pleasant, wonderful, joyous, balanced, prosperous, full of love and that feels good?
If you get to choose the thoughts that you think, which oh by the way you do, why would you choose to imagine yourself anywhere but where it is you really want to be?
Change your thoughts, Dear One, and you just may find that you have much less to be troubled about than you originally thought you did.
On: A relationship to-do list
- Be kind
- Be caring
- Be complementary
- Be truthful
- Be sincere
- Be thoughtful in all you say and do
- Be compassionate and forgiving
- Be honest
- Be respectful
- Be open minded
- Release expectations
- Encourage passions
- Acknowledge feelings
- Have lots of fun
These are just some of the things that you do for someone that you love Dear One.
And we would like to encourage you to start doing them all, for yourself.
On: Why you can’t quit
You can’t quit, Dear One.
- Not because you shouldn’t.
- Not because you couldn’t
- Not because it’s a sign of weakness, failure or an admittance of guilt or incompetence if you do
You can’t quit because whatever it is you are trying to get away from by quitting is not going to go away until you deal with it, confront it, face it, handle it, learn from it, address it head on. It will keep coming back, in one form or another, again and again and again, until you do.
When it comes down to it, quitting really is nothing more than a delay tactic.
It is a defeatist act rooted in frustration, desperation and a belief in powerlessness, and it resolves nothing
But making a conscious decision to walk away, choosing to make a different choice, an empowered choice, now that is an entirely different story altogether.
On: Laying down your sword
Don’t fight your heart, Dear One, follow it.
Lay down your sword.
There are some battles that are just not worth winning.
On: Feelings
Remember, Dear One, an emotion is something that you feel, it is not something that defines who you are.
Acerca de: Hacia dónde ir desde aquí
El mundo te necesita aquí, querido/a, en el momento presente, porque este es el único lugar desde donde puedes generar un cambio verdadero.
Tus amigos y tu familia también te necesitan aquí, porque este es el único lugar desde donde pueden recibir plenamente tu amor.
Tu cuerpo te necesita aquí, porque este es el único lugar desde donde puede sanar y fortalecerse.
Y nosotros también te necesitamos aquí, porque aquí es donde nuestra conexión es más fuerte, y siempre lo será.
Entonces, querido/a, ¿cuál es el camino desde aquí?
Nuestra esperanza es que, para este momento, la respuesta ya esté clara.
On: Understanding obstacles
“Obstacles” don’t exist, Dear One, to test you, harm you, inhibit you, or throw you off course. Their purpose is not to challenge you, mess with you, piss you off, or annoy and frustrate you.
Truth is, Dear One, that what you perceive as obstacles are simply aspects of reality that you have either:
- Never encountered before, or
- That you have just not figured out how to handle, manage, or engage with yet, in productive ways.
For example, fire, Dear One, is not an obstacle that is put in someone’s path to burn then. It is simply another reality of your physical world. If you were to encounter it for the first time, without knowing what it was, it could appear dangerous, and it could cause you and those around you great harm. When approached without understanding and skill, about what it is, its properties, and how to best interact with it, (and how best not to) it can be a significant threat.
But fire is not a challenge, Dear Child, it is not an obstacle; it is a tool, an element, an energy, that when understood, holds great potential for those who become knowledgeable about what it is and how it works, and learn how to interact with it and use it, safely.
Try and see all of the other elements, the obstacles in your life, Dear One, in the same light, in the same vein, with the same curiosity, and your whole world might begin to feel a whole lot less treacherous, and a whole lot more promising, manageable, and full of potential.
On: Without a doubt
We don’t doubt, Dear One, not even for a second, your ability to do or be or have or create anything that you want, and we never will.
Imagine if you can, how different your life, your relationships, your experiences, your choices would be if you didn’t doubt it either.
Sobre tus relaciones
Cuando se trata de tus relaciones, querido/a, ¿qué deseas más?
¿Seguir protegiéndote?
¿O experimentar conexiones más profundas, más ricas, más fuertes y más significativas que nunca antes?
No puedes hacer ambas cosas al mismo tiempo.
Al final, tendrás que elegir.