What is the best way that you can think of Dear One, to lose a relationship with someone or something that you love?

What has experience taught you?

We’ll remind you of just a few:

• You can ignore it
• Disregard it
• Take it for granted
• Stop respecting it
• Stop engaging with it
• Withhold your whole heart from it
• Remove your attention from it
• Quit putting time and energy into it

If you did all or even some of these things in a relationship with something that you cared for, be it a person, a pet, a hobby, a talent, a project, a job, your health, etc., experience has taught you that over time the result would be that your connection to it would fade.  And if you did it long enough, your relationship with it would eventually end altogether.

Well, the same holds true for relationships with people and things that you don’t love, that you don’t care for, that you don’t want in your life anymore too.

You don’t have to fight, struggle, work or try as hard as you’ve been trying to eliminate those things in your life that you don’t want there anymore Dear One.

Simply start neglecting them and it won’t be long before they will leave on their own accord.

You have come to this place to heal this place Dear One.

You did not do something wrong.You are not being punished.  You are not being tested.  You are not being taught a lesson.

You are being given an opportunity to heal.

Take it.

We know who you are Dear One.

And we know why you’re here.

We knew who you were you before you decided to incarnate into this physical reality.

And we remember why you decided to do so.

• And it had nothing to do with winning, proving a point, achieving success, or gaining control.
• And it had nothing to do with being right, famous, rich, popular or thin either.

Do you want to know who you are Dear One?

You are a powerful a creator with the ability to manifest anything your heart desires.  You are an essential part of all that is.  You are eternal. You are divine. And you never can and never will be anything less. You are someone who is deeply valued, cherished, loved and adored.

Do you want to know why you choose to be here ?

To enjoy it.

Now you know too.

It doesn’t always have to be about trying to achieve something great Dear One.

You don’t always have to work so hard to make a difference.

What we mean by this is that you don’t constantly need to be striving for, working towards, trying to achieve some ambitious, life changing, envy inspiring, lofty goal for yourself in order to remain on the cutting edge of creation, in order to be doing something worthy, productive or significant with your life.

So you can let yourself off the hook.

Know that it is perfectly ok  for you to set ordinary goals for yourself, to pursue ordinary experiences —  beautifully simple, regular, run of the mill, everyday,  nothing spectacular goals and experiences.

Because the truth is that if it makes you smile, if it makes you feel good, if it brings you joy, then you are doing something worthy, productive and significant with your life.

And if that is the case Dear One, then the answer is yes, the answer will always be yes – it is totally and completely worth it.

The question that you need to ask yourself Dear One is not Can I do this? but Will I do this?

• Will you allow yourself to leap?
• Will you allow yourself to be inspired to action?
• Will you allow well-being to dominate your life?
• Will you allow yourself to release old patters and heal?
• Will you choose to believe that you can?
• Will you choose to step forward with confidence?
• Will you choose to make joy a priority?
• Will you choose to forgive yourself and them, for your benefit, not for theirs?
• Will you choose to let go of all of the things that no longer serve you, including negative thoughts, actions, behaviors, and relationships?
• Will you choose to be happy?

We know that you can Dear One.

That is a question we don’t even need to ask.

But will you?

What were you thinking about Dear One, just now?

Your thoughts create your reality you know.

So, if you don’t want more of whatever it is that you were just thinking about, you really should stop thinking about it, right now, and think about something that you do want more of instead.

Just a suggestion.

Go and have some fun today Dear One.

Laugh. Connect. Relax. Enjoy.

Do something that makes you smile.

Trust us, it is the most productive thing that you can do for yourself.

Now go play.

To say that beauty is measured by how one looks – is like saying that intelligence is measured by how one smells.

Your eyes are not the determinate of beauty Dear One, your heart is.

True beauty is not about how you look – it is about how you see.

You can’t doubt and trust at the same time Dear One.

You have to choose, one or the other.

You already know where doubt will lead you.

You are there.

What if today, you picked trust instead?

We hope you don’t mind, but we’ve got another favor to ask of you Dear One.

What if you made taking care of yourself, honoring yourself, and feeling good your top priority today?

What would that look like?

Would you please show us?