Are you happy Dear One?

  • If yes, great! Enjoy it!
  • If not, do something about it.

But know that resenting it, regretting it, fearing it, hating it, feeling badly about it, raging against it, complaining about it, blaming yourself for it (or anyone else for that matter), is not going to do anything useful to improve the situation in any positive way.

So if that is what you have been trying up until this point, you should know that it might be time for you to try something else.