Listen to what they have to have to say Dear One, ask for their advice, guidance, support and perspective, consider their point of view — if you think it will help.
But in the end, the experience of it will be yours and yours alone; seen by your eyes, sensed by your skin, touched by your lips, felt by your heart.
Now is the time to lighten up Dear One.
It really is okay to not take it all so seriously – whatever it is – even the really, big, important, seriously scary stuff.
We say this to you not to disrespect, trivialize, dismiss or belittle whatever very difficult, important or challenging situation, circumstance or event you might be dealing with at the moment.
We say this to you to help you to remember that you can choose to approach it, deal with it, and move past it with ease, grace, joy, confidence and levity just as easily as you can with intensity, struggle, stress, drama, fear, and doubt.
Fear is a powerful attractor Dear One.
It serves to concentrate, focus, fixate all of your energy on a single idea, object, scenario or outcome, bringing you into vibrational alignment with it, and therefore inviting it into your reality.
The same holds true for faith.
Why give your attention to what’s wrong, to what’s not working, to what you have not yet achieved, to what makes you feel badly Dear One, when there are so many other more pleasant, pleasing, productive, and enjoyable options available for you to choose from instead on instead?
We’re just saying.
Do you want to know the fastest way to get from where you are to where you want to be Dear One?
Slow down. Don’t rush, stress, or be hurried in your actions.
Practice patience.
The more focused and centered you are, the more clarity you have, the more intentional and confident your actions are, the better you will feel, the more effective you will be.
The time for believing yourself to be weak, incapable, powerless, unworthy, unimportant, unoriginal, or anything less than you really are, is long over Dear One.
Your beliefs are not like the color of your hair Dear One, or the shape of your eyes.
They are not something that are assigned to you or determined for you by genetics, or any other external force in the universe, like a parent, a teacher, or a book.
They are a very personal choice that you make every single day.
If yours are causing you to feel anything other than strong, empowered, and good about yourself, please remember that it is well within your power to change them anytime you would like.
Do you know where you belong Dear One?
You belong in a place that makes you happy. You belong with people that you love and that love you. You belong wherever it is that you feel strong, supported, powerful, creative, and useful. You belong where you feel encouraged, inspired, and energized, hopeful, courageous, accepted and safe.
That’s where.
If when you look around, you find that you are not in a place like this, then perhaps it is time for you to acknowledge that where you are might not be the right place for you after all, and move on.