If you can’t find a way to feel good about the situation you’re in Dear One, to feel hope, see potential, or the light at the end of tunnel, stop.

 Just stop.

 Don’t try and fix it.  Don’t try and change it.  Don’t try and fight it, avoid it, get around it, or out of it.  Don’t do anything.

 Not until you find something about it, or anything else that you can feel good about first.

 Feel good, and then take action.  Always in that order.

 To do it any other way is only asking for trouble.