When you choose to ignore guidance, Dear One, or your own intuition, or a hunch, and take action instead based on some other seemingly compelling force, and things don’t work out – and you realize that if you had only trusted yourself, they would have – do not punish yourself for that choice.

The experience of learning from not doing something is just as valuable as the experience of learning from doing something – because in both cases you are learning from experience.

When you find yourself in the midst of this particular kind of learning scenario, our hope of you is that in addition to whatever it is that you have gleaned from your trial and error experience, that you will also have learned to trust in yourself more.