If you are unsure of what it means to love yourself Dear One, of what it looks like to love yourself, of what you are meant to do, of how you are meant to think, speak act, and behave towards yourself in ways that are loving, we will tell you precisely what you can do to figure it out.

Think of someone that you love very much, deeply, purely, totally, and completely.  Imagine how you would care for them, speak to them, think of them, feed them, comfort, them, react and respond to them if they came to you confused, unsure or in need, with a question, a problem, or hurt feelings, with a broken heart, body or spirit.

  • Have you got it?
  • Are you picturing it?
  • Can you imagine what you would do for them?
  • Can you imagine how you would treat them?

If you can, then you’ve just found your answer.