Fretting about “what is” is like fretting about the rain during a rainstorm.

There is nothing you can do to stop the water the from falling from the sky, but can choose how you are going to react to it.

You can stay inside. You can go out with an umbrella, a rain coat, rubber boots or all three. You can run around the block with nothing on and get wet or you can choose to go out in your favorite suede coat. You can dance in a puddle or take a walk with a lightening rod.

You can’t stop the rain Dear One, but you can choose how you are going to experience it.