You are not a disappointment Dear One.  We are not disappointed in you.  We never have been, and we never will be. Ever.

Why?

Because we have no expectations of you.  We have only love, acceptance, compassion, support, guidance, and applause for you.

We require nothing of you, nothing from you.  And we never will.  You simply can’t let us down.

We don’t have a list of rules that we need you to follow, or a set of demands that we need you to meet, before we will give you our love.

It is already yours.  All of it.  We couldn’t love you more than we do right now, even if we tried.

So if that was one of your worries Dear One, if that was one of your fears, that you were not, that you are not, living up to our expectations, up to spirits expectations, of what you are meant to do, be, have, or accomplish in this life, you can at long last, let that one go, once and for all.

If you take responsibility Dear One, there will be no one to blame.

Are you ready for that?

If someone is not living up to your expectations of them Dear One, instead of being disappointed, instead of trying to change them, instead of trying to fix them, instead of trying to force yourself to not care in order to put an end to your unhappiness, why not simply change your expectation of them instead?

Now, wouldn’t that be easier?

Please remember Dear One, that having a bad feeling is not a valid excuse for making a bad choice.

Thank you!

Why struggle, when you can allow Dear One?

Why pretend when you can be truthful?

Why fight when you can accomplish so much more by connecting?

Why be hard on yourself, when you can choose to be loving, caring, nurturing, and supportive of yourself instead?

You can’t stop all hurts from ever reaching you Dear One, but you can stop making them worse for yourself when they do.

What is it that you are going to choose to talk about today Dear One?

• The things that you love or the things that you hate?
• The things that you have or the things that you don’t?
• The things that make you feel strong or the things that make you feel weak?
• The parts of you that are hurting or the parts that are healing?
• The things that are wrong with the world, or the things you can do to make it better?

The story that you tell is the story that you create.

So, think first and decide before you speak Dear One, what it is that you want to create for yourself today.

When what you want is not what is showing up for you Dear One, a simple misalignment may be all there is to blame.

How do you know if this is the case?

Ask yourself if your actions, thoughts and beliefs are in alignment with your desires.

And remember:

• You can’t reach abundance with actions motivated by fear, scarcity, or deprivation
• You can’t reach joy with thoughts fueled by anger, regret or despair
• You can’t reach love with a belief that you are not worthy of it

Do you trust yourself enough to really let go, to follow your heart and  see where it will take you?

If yes, what are you waiting for?

If no, what are you waiting for?

Will you be a creator or a victim of your circumstance today Dear One?

Which you choose is up to you.

But we just really wanted you to remember that there is a choice to be made.