Do you want to know how to get unstuck Dear One?
Move.
Make a choice.
Take an action.
Move.
Physically, emotionally, spiritually.
Doesn’t matter where you start. Pick your point of least, not greatest resistance and start there.
Move one and you will be creating room, opening up space for movement to occur across them all.
There is nothing more potent Dear One, more electric, exciting, powerful, or more full of potential for creating abundance than a brilliant idea.
There is no more commanding or concentrated positive point of attraction in all of the universe.
If you are fortunate enough to discover one, to come up with one on your own, or to have someone else share one with you, don’t make the mistake of ignoring it, dismissing it, belittling it, or rationalizing it away.
Act on it, immediately. Take the bait, run with the ball, get carried away, be inspired and take whatever action is necessary, as soon as you possible can, to turn it into a reality.
And do you know makes an idea brilliant Dear One?
We’ll tell you.
You deciding it is so.
A willingness to proceed. Sometimes that is all that you need to muster up in yourself Dear One.
When fear, doubt, confusion, remorse, indecision, sadness or panic even, overwhelm you and you get lost in your current set of circumstances and want nothing more than to shut down, disconnect, give up – if you do nothing more then simply remain open to the idea of continuing to move forward – then you will!
Digging in, stopping in your tracks will not heal, solve, or resolve anything. If fact, it can do the exact opposite of that. Stopping can prolong pain and suffering, confusion, remorse and loneliness.
Life’s current is constantly moving, flowing towards someplace new. If you let go and allow yourself to float for a while – no kicking, no screaming, no splashing about – simply let go and float, before you know it, you will be in a different place. The scenery will have changed and you will find that you have moved on from that place that was no longer serving you.
If we were you Dear One, we would not think about, talk about, or give the majority of our energy or attention to the things around us that displeased us, frustrated us, angered us, upset us, caused us discomfort, pain, distress, or pissed us off.
We would instead choose to focus our attention on those things that pleased us, that felt good to us, that brought us joy, pleasure, and happiness, that inspired us, motivated us, and helped us to feel loved, useful, connected and grateful.
We are not suggesting you turn a blind eye to all of your problems, and all the problems in the world around you. We are simply suggesting that you consider the possibility that choosing to focus on their solutions instead would perhaps be a more pleasant and productive use of your time.
You can choose to focus your attention on that which makes you feel badly if you want to Dear One, but you should know that that would not be the choice that we would make if we were you.
Memories are not necessarily a true reflection of the events of your past Dear One. They are more like a picture/a snap shot created in your mind to support a current feeling about an event from your past.
Memories can be beautiful but they can be damaging as well. Especially when you assign more value or truth to them then you do the present moment.
You can learn from your memories, but be wary of them as well. It is the present moment, the now, that has the greatest influence on how you remember something. Keep this in mind when you attach meaning to an event from long ago. When you do, more often that not, is it simply a way of putting a current feeling into a familiar context.
Be wary of giving too much energy to your memories Dear One, as your recollection of them are really much more about the present then you would think.
Abundance is a mindset Dear One, not a physical state of being.
Abundance is a way of life – and it has no limits.
That’s why when you take notice of those that seem to have acquired it, there is no apparent end to their good fortune, to their wealth, to their success, to what they can have, do, or be.
And there is a very good reason for that Dear One — It’s because there isn’t one.
If your goal, your desire, your objective in this life, is acquire a great deal of anything, abundance will always allude you.
The path to abundance, to more joy, success, love, wealth, comfort, health, to more anything, to more everything, is not a path of accumulation – but a path of release.
And the truth is that the more you let go, of your limits, of limiting thoughts, beliefs, actions and behaviors, the more abundant you will be.
You can’t punish yourself for making a mistake, misjudgment, or misstep Dear One, and come back into alignment, return to your flow, make it right again, at the same time.
You’re going to have to choose, one or the other.
You’re going to have to decide which is more important to you; returning to well-being and restoring balance, or remaining self-critical.
What’s it going to be?
Why bother doing all that you can Dear One, when you can get by doing just enough?
Why bother doing the right the thing when no one really seems to care or to even be paying attention?
Why bother trusting, and making the harder, braver, more challenging choice when you’ve got something to lose?
Why bother putting in the extra effort to be thoughtful, generous, loving, persistent, patient, forgiving, and kind when it is not requested, required or expected?
Because what you put out is what you get back.
That’s why.
If you are not being yourself Dear One, who cares what they think of you, who cares if they like you?
What would be the point really of getting someone to like some person that you are pretending to be?
You want to feel more powerful, Dear One?
Then choose to think, speak and act from one of the most powerful places within you — your truth.
Not theirs, yours.