Do you want to know how to be loved the way that you want to be loved, Dear One?

Love yourself well.

Show them how it’s done.

If you are looking for simple directions, Dear One, that will help you get from where you are to where you want to be, here they are:

• Always look up more than you look down
• Always look forward more than you look back
• Always keep your attention focused more on where you want to be, and less on where you don’t
• Always follow your smile, heart, and intuition

And always do the best you can to allow yourself to enjoy the trip.

Now, get moving.

You are not a disappointment, Dear One.  We are not disappointed in you.  We never have been, and we never will be. Ever.

Why?

Because we have no expectations of you.  We have only love, acceptance, compassion, support, guidance, and applause for you.

We require nothing of you, nothing from you.  And we never will.  You simply can’t let us down.

We don’t have a list of rules that we need you to follow, or a set of demands that we need you to meet, before we will give you our love.

It is already yours.  All of it.  We couldn’t love you more than we do right now, even if we tried.

So if that was one of your worries, Dear One, if that was one of your fears, that you were not, that you are not, living up to our expectations, up to spirits expectations, of what you are meant to do, be, have, or accomplish in this life, you can at long last, let that one go, once and for all.

• You know you don’t have to wait until you are sick to take time to heal, Dear One.
• You know you don’t have to wait until you are in trouble to ask for help.
• You know you don’t have to wait until you are lonely or afraid to invite someone to keep you company.
• You know you don’t have to wait until you are perfect to be worthy of love.
• You know you don’t have to wait until the end to decide to begin again.

Don’t you?

When you wake up each morning, Dear One, there are infinite possibilities available to you.  And these possibilities diminish only when you choose to dismiss them.  Only when you decide that something is impossible does it become impossible.

The truth is that anything is possible.  It is in large part a matter of belief that allows everything into your reality.

First you must believe, and then you will see.

So, don’t expect miracles to show up in your day if you don’t’ believe in them.  Expect reality, and you won’t be disappointed.  Expecting a miracle can be a very difficult thing to do if you don’t believe.  Expecting reality is much simpler, and much more logical thing to do.

But, if your belief of reality is that anything is possible, well then…..

See what you expect.  Expect more than what you see.  This is the key to creation.

Sometimes there is no better or more useful way to serve, to be of service, Dear One, then to take really good care of yourself; to honor yourself, to nurture yourself, to prioritize yourself, to enjoy yourself, to shine, and show them how it’s done.

Tomorrow will always be there, Dear One.  But today will come and go.

It would be a real shame if you were to waste it.

So don’t.

Your life will begin to change for the better, Dear One, the moment that you realize that believing so is all that it takes.