It is not your responsibility to teach them, Dear One.
It is your responsibility to find your voice and use it.
And if others should hear your words and be motivated by them, learn from them, be inspired by them, or take-action as a result of them, then so be it.
You can’t punish yourself for making a mistake, misjudgment, or misstep, Dear One, and come back into alignment, return to your flow, make it right again, at the same time.
You’re going to have to choose, one or the other.
You’re going to have to decide which is more important to you; returning to well-being and restoring balance, or remaining self-critical.
What’s it going to be?
With power comes great responsibility, Dear One.
But you should know that the opposite is also true.
With responsibility comes great power.
The more you take responsibility for your life—your choices, thoughts, words, actions and reactions—and accept that you are the one responsible for creating, attracting, and allowing every experience that you have, the more powerful you will be.
You are a vibrational being. Dear One, and as such, you are quite literally connected to everything and everyone around you.
Everything that you do, think, feel, say, act out, choose, create, or destroy, has an impact on your world and everything in it, has an impact on your body and every cell in it.
It all counts. Dear One.
So the question to ask yourself today is not “Do I want to try and make an impact on the world around me?”.
The question to ask is “What kind of impact do I want to make”.
What’s your story, Dear One?
What is that you believe to be true about yourself, about others, about the world around you, about what’s possible?
If you are not sure, there is an easy way for you to find out.
Stop and take notice. The people, circumstances and events that surround you are reflecting it back to you, every minute of every day.
You are living your beliefs, Dear One, you are living the story you are telling, whether you are conscious of it or not.
If, when you look around, you are not happy with what you see, with what is being reflected back to you, we would like to suggest that before you start exerting a great deal of effort into trying to change what is, that you instead put your effort into telling a different story. A story that you enjoy, that excites you, that makes you happy. One filled will beauty, balance, abundance, love, health or whatever else it is that you want more of in your life.
Tell a different story, Dear One, change your beliefs, and let the universe do the bulk of the work for you to bring them to life.
Tell a different story and watch as your world transforms around you.
The idea is not to work yourself to the point of exhaustion, Dear One.
The idea is to work yourself to the point of exhilaration.
If you work and work and work and at the end of the day, feel worse than you did than at the beginning, you may want to spend a little time reevaluating what it is that you are really working for, what it is you are really working so hard to create for yourself.
Leave it all alone, Dear One. Forget about trying to pick it all back up. Truly. Just let it all lay there, exactly where it is for the moment.
And only when you are ready – start to pick back up the pieces – but selectively this time. Choose intentionally. Choose consciously. Choose wisely. Pick up only those pieces that you truly want, that you truly desire, that you know will contribute to feelings of joy, love, laughter, connection and happiness in your life. But do so, one-at-a-time.
If you keep on trying to carry the whole load with you everywhere that you go, you will only find yourself needlessly bogged down, yet again, incredibly overwhelmed, yet again and in a prime position to drop it all, yet again.
Do just one thing at a time, Dear one, joyously, with an open mind and an open heart, and you will be right back on track – aligned with your life’s mission – to complete nothing and experience everything.
Remember, you never get it done. You’ll never be finished. There is no finish line you are racing towards. If you don’t remember to enjoy yourself along the way, then you will be missing out on the very best part of being alive, of existence.
Your life is meant to be a joy, Dear One, and if the things that you are doing, from day-to-day-to-day, are no longer bringing you joy, then it is time to let them go. Simply put them down or leave them down, and step away.
You don’t need to change your reality to begin to turn things around, Dear One — just your mind.
Why struggle, when you can trust, Dear One?
Why pretend when you can be yourself?
Why fight when you can accomplish so much more by allowing?
Why be hard on yourself, when you can choose to be loving, caring, nurturing, and supportive of yourself instead?
You can’t stop all hurts from ever reaching you Dear One, but you can stop making them worse for yourself when they do.
There are two ways that you can choose to respond to any situation, Dear One:
One defines you as powerless and the other as powerful.
Which are you going to choose to be today?