To say that beauty is measured by how one looks – is like saying that intelligence is measured by how one smells.

Your eyes are not the determinate of beauty, Dear One, your heart is.

True beauty is not about how you look – it is about how you see.

Before you answer the phone today, Dear One, before you pick up any call, first ask yourself ‘Why am I going to take this call?’

• Is it curiosity?
• Is it love?
• Is it obligation?
• Is it fear?
• Is it responsibility?
• Is it self-mutilation?
• Is it habit?
• Is it because you genuinely want to connect with the person on the other end of the line?

Today, Dear One, just for the day, let the last answer on the list the be the only acceptable answer that there is.

PS
This easily can be applied to outgoing calls too!

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Be someone who tells the truth, Dear One.

And let them be the one to reject you for it, if that is their truth.

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Insecurity, Dear One is fueled by a fear of rejection, a fear of being left unloved.
Love yourself and that can never, will never come to pass.

That pit you feel in your stomach is dependency.
It is an empty space inside you that is waiting for nourishment to be sent your way.

Send out a cord to another for the nourishment you need, and you may or may not get what you need in return.

Connect your cord to your source instead, and you need never fear that hunger again.

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Today, Dear One, start working on building your dream house, the space you want to live in, the life you want to live.

How?

By only bringing that which you truly treasure through the front door.

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Don’t make yourself nervous worrying so much about what “they” will or do think about you, Dear One.

We can think of no greater waste of your time.

If you are really needing to make yourself nervous about something, be nervous worrying about what YOU think of you.

Because if what you think of you is not wonderful, delightful, positive, or even just mostly more good than not, then their opinion of you really is the least of your troubles.

PS
And there isn’t much you can do to change the way that they see you anyway. But there is LOTS you can do to change how you see you. And we can think of no greater use of your time than working on that.

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Don’t you dare compare or compete when it comes to matters of the heart, Dear One.

There is no more personal or divine act than coming to you know your own, and then growing to honor and respect it.

You are the only one who will ever truly know it, and you are also the only one who can ever really break it.

To compare your heart to another’s to determine what is right for you, would be as useful as comparing your fingerprints to another’s to determine self-worth.

You are not meant to live up to or down to anyone else’s standards; of beauty, or intelligence, or value, or intimacy, or love, regardless of the nature of your relationship. The standards that are appropriate for you are determined, can only ever be determined, by you and your heart alone.

So don’t you dare attempt to resolve matters of the heart by comparison.
You, and your divine heart deserve more respect than that.

Look within not around to find all the answers that you seek.

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When there is no balance, Dear One, if you are not in a balanced state, nothing you create, nothing you contribute, will be balanced.

(You create chaos when you create chaotically.)

Now that you know this, now that this is well understood, the next thing that we tell you will make a whole lot more sense and will be a whole lot easier for you to consider.

No matter how much you have to do today, no matter how long your to-do list, no matter how rushed you feel, or how rushed they are making you feel, find balance first, Dear One. Find your center first.

Then and only then will you be in a position to make a useful contribution, to move forward productively, in a way that you can feel proud of, in a way that you will feel good about.

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You are and will always be more light than you are dark, Dear One.

You will always be more spirit/energy than you are physical.

There is more about you that is malleable, flexible, and changeable than is permanent.

There will always be more about you that you can change, Dear One, than you can not.

Bring ease to all that you do today, Dear One.
– to all that you say
– to all that you write.
– to all that you feel, think, embrace, contemplate, and create

Bring ease to it all. Breathe ease into it all.
– to your work
– to your relationships
– to your care of yourself

Bring ease instead of fear, anger, doubt, uncertainty, frustration, or anything else that may arise as you move through your day that you don’t want more of infused into your life.

Bring ease to it all, Dear One.

And then watch as see what happens.
Watch and see how it transforms.

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