The truth, Dear One, your truth is that place from where you allow your thoughts, words, actions and deeds to be dictated from.

• Is your truth fear, uncertainty, insecurity, doubt, or judgment?
• Is your truth confidence, integrity, love, compassion, or humility?
• Is it something else?

The truth is, Dear One, that your truth is what you decide to make it.

Insecurity, Dear One is fueled by a fear of rejection, a fear of being left unloved.

That pit you feel in your stomach is dependency.

It is an empty space inside you that is waiting for nourishment to be sent your way.

Reach out to another for the nourishment you need, and you may or may not get what you need in return.

Reach out to your source instead, and you need never fear that hunger again.

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You are living a completely different life, Dear One, when you choose to live your life for yourself instead of for them.

• THAT is why everything feels so different when you choose you.
• THAT is why the ordinary suddenly feels so unfamiliar when you choose you.
• THAT is why it can at times feel WRONG to choose to you.

And whether or not you are going to choose to keep feeling this way is up to only you.

And to decide if the discomfort that comes with choosing you over them is worth it, is yet another choice only you can make.

Remember, Dear One, each of you gets one life to live.

They’ve got theirs to do with as they please.

It’s up to you to decide what you are going to choose to do with yours.

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The reason things feel so out of alignment for you right now, Dear One, is because things are so out alignment for you. (Otherwise you would not be feeling this way.)

Acknowledging that your current state, the discomfort you are feeling in your body / your work / your relationships is the result of misalignment is the first step towards finding relief.

Once you do that, you can begin taking the necessary steps to correct it, to bring yourself back into alignment; without judgement, without resistance, without blame, without anger, without self-pity, and without the need to first question or understand WHY this has happened to you.

You are not being called upon to accept this misaligned state as some kind of universal retribution, or to figure out what necessary protections you need to adopt in order to prevent this discomfort from ever happening to you again.

You are being called upon to correct it, to fix it, to bring whatever is out of alignment in your life back into alignment.

And knowing THAT is what is for your greatest good today, Dear One.

Any questions, please ask. 

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We are not going to try and stop you from making self-destructive choices, Dear One, repeating self-destructive patterns, or engaging in self-destructive relationships.

This is your life and you are free to choose to live it any way that you please.

But what we are going to do is try and help you to become more aware of the fact that you are doing so.

We want you to think about and be conscious of every single choice that you make.  We want you to choose purposefully, deliberately, and with intention.

If you are making choices that are harming you, we would like for you to be fully aware of the fact that you are doing so.

This is your life, Dear One, and you are free to make any choice that pleases you.

If, however, the choices that you are making are not pleasing to you, then we are going to do all that we can to encourage you to start making different ones.

Please don’t waste any more of your time, Dear One, trying to make the right impression, trying to fit in, trying to be accepted, trying to make them see, like, or love you.

Because no matter how hard you try, no matter how much you plan, no matter how much effort you put into it, no matter how careful you are, you are never going to be able to control what they think of you.

That is not your choice to make.  It is theirs and theirs alone.

How do you know if what you are feeling is your intuition telling you beware, proceed with caution, or turn around and run, or if what you feeling is nothing more than your own habitual fears and resistant patterns acting up on you again?

When trying to discern the difference between the two, Dear One, remember this:

• Fear cuts you off from your source
• Your intuition connects you to it

The physical is the leading edge of thought, Dear One, the leading edge of all that is.   And you, your present moment, is the tip of the iceberg.  You are leading the charge.

We just thought you should know.