On: Figuring it all out
No one has it all figured out, Dear one.
No one.
Not even us.
So let yourself off the hook today and stop trying so hard to be the one to do it.
On: Being scared
Remember, Dear One, that regardless of how scared, chaotic, lost, or out of control you feel, that the world feels right now, your center, your home, is only one slow, deep breath away.
And we are there.
Always.
On: What you can do about it
Do your choices, thoughts, beliefs, and actions reflect your desires, Dear One?
Do they match up?
- If you want more joy in your life, are you making choices, thinking thoughts, maintaining beliefs, and taking actions that make you feel joyful?
- If you want more freedom in your life, are you making choices, thinking thoughts, maintaining beliefs, and taking actions that make you feel free?
- If you want more love, abundance, peace, or beauty in your life, are you making choices, thinking thoughts, maintaining beliefs, and taking actions that make you feel loved, abundant, peaceful and beautiful?
So now do you see, Dear One?
If what you want, is not what you’ve got, there absolutely IS something you can do about it.
On: Something you CAN control
There are many things in this world that you can’t control, Dear One.
Thankfully, your thoughts are not one of them.
If the thought that you are thinking right now is not making you feel better, is not bringing you joy, is not offering you some sense of relief, we want to remind you that it is well within your power to choose another.
Some thoughts can be so overwhelming, so all encompassing, so powerful that it can be easy to forget that you are choosing them.
But make no mistake, Dear One, you are.
On: Who’s responsible for this?
Responsibility begins and end with you, Dear One.
- You are responsible for the company that you keep
- You are responsible for the work that you do
- You are responsible for the choices that you make
- You are responsible for the actions that you take, and don’t take
- You are responsible for your attitude, opinions, beliefs and responses
- You are responsible for deciding what is and what is not acceptable to you
- You are responsible for when you show up, how long you stay, and when you leave
Just something to keep in mind the next time you find yourself looking around for the responsible party.
On: Memories
Memories are not necessarily a true reflection of the events of your past, Dear One. They are more like a picture/a snap shot created in your mind to support a current feeling about an event from your past.
Memories can be beautiful, but they can be damaging as well. Especially when you assign more value or truth to them then you do the present moment.
You can learn from your memories, but be wary of them as well. It is the present moment, the now, that has the greatest influence on how you remember something. Keep this in mind when you attach meaning to an event from long ago. When you do, more often that not, is it simply a way of putting a current feeling into a familiar context.
Be wary of giving too much energy to your memories Dear One, as your recollection of them are really much more about the present then you might think.
On: What is the truth?
The truth, Dear One, your truth is that place from where you allow your thoughts, words, actions and deeds to be dictated from.
- Is your truth fear, uncertainty, insecurity, doubt, or judgment?
- Is your truth confidence, integrity, love, compassion, or humility?
- Is it something else?
The truth is, Dear One, that your truth is what you decide to make it.
On: Satiating insecurity
Insecurity, Dear One is fueled by a fear of rejection, a fear of being left unloved.
That pit you feel in your stomach is dependency.
It is an empty space inside you that is waiting for nourishment to be sent your way.
Reach out to another for the nourishment you need, and you may or may not get what you need in return.
Reach out to your source instead, and you need never fear that hunger again.
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On: Why choosing YOU feels wrong
You are living a completely different life, Dear One, when you choose to live your life for yourself instead of for them.
- THAT is why everything feels so different when you choose you.
- THAT is why the ordinary suddenly feels so unfamiliar when you choose you.
- THAT is why it can at times feel WRONG to choose to you.
And whether or not you are going to choose to keep feeling this way is up to only you.
And to decide if the discomfort that comes with choosing you over them is worth it, is yet another choice only you can make.
Remember, Dear One, each of you gets one life to live.
They’ve got theirs to do with as they please.
It’s up to you to decide what you are going to choose to do with yours.
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On: For your greatest good
The reason things feel so out of alignment for you right now, Dear One, is because things are so out alignment for you. (Otherwise you would not be feeling this way.)
Acknowledging that your current state, the discomfort you are feeling in your body / your work / your relationships is the result of misalignment is the first step towards finding relief.
Once you do that, you can begin taking the necessary steps to correct it, to bring yourself back into alignment; without judgement, without resistance, without blame, without anger, without self-pity, and without the need to first question or understand WHY this has happened to you.
You are not being called upon to accept this misaligned state as some kind of universal retribution, or to figure out what necessary protections you need to adopt in order to prevent this discomfort from ever happening to you again.
You are being called upon to correct it, to fix it, to bring whatever is out of alignment in your life back into alignment.
And knowing THAT is what is for your greatest good today, Dear One.
Any questions, please ask.
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