Know that nothing about you needs to change for you to be loved, Dear One.   You are already loved, totally, completely and eternally – just as you are.

You may think that a partner is necessary to make feeling the experience of love possible.  And experiencing love with a partner is one way to experience it, but it is not the only way.  And we are not talking about sex, although that is a part of it.  It is not a partner that makes love possible.  It is not a partner that is creating the love, Dear One.

Love already exists – ready for you to experience anytime that you choose.

With a partner is just the way that you have learned to open yourself up to the experience of love in your physical reality.  But if you choose to, you can experience the love that is already yours without one as well.

How?

By simply choosing to believe our words:

You are already loved, Dear One, totally, completely and eternally – just as you are.

Wishing it away, Dear One, praying for it to disappear, hoping that it will exit your life forever, will not bring you any relief, will not change anything in any meaningful way for the better.

But imagining you life without it will!

Can you see and appreciate the difference?

That contrast that you are cursing, Dear One, is the teacher that you have been asking for.

You can rage at it or learn from it.

The choice is yours.

You are not falling short, you are not failing them, you are not failing anyone, Dear One, when you choose to love you, to respect you, to honor yourself and the needs of your body, mind, and spirit, above all else.

In fact, when you prioritize yourself, you are doing the exact opposite.

When you choose you, Dear One, you are gaining more of, creating more of, strengthening and expanding the most important thing, the most truly valuable contribution that you will and could ever  make to this world, which is more of you!

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Toughing it out, pushing through, trying harder, sacrificing more, working smarter, powering on, or fighting the good fight will never be a more efficient or effective approach for helping you to get there, for helping you to achieve your goals, Dear One, as doing something that makes you happy will.

It can be difficult to choose something new/to pick up that which you want, Dear One, if your hands are already full of that which you do not want.

Make sense?

Know what you have to do next?

You are a profoundly powerful, divine spiritual being, Dear One.

And you are surrounded each and every day by profoundly powerful, divine spiritual beings.

Some of them may know it. Some of them may be aware of their divinity, and some of them may not. But their level of awareness does not change who or what they are. The only thing that knowing changes is their  personal experience of that truth.

But you can know it, Dear One. You can choose to see and trust and acknowledge their divinity, even if they can’t.

And while knowing may not have any impact on them, Dear One, on their experience of you, you can be sure that knowing will have a deep and profound impact on your experience of them. And truth be told, that is all we are really concerned with at this time — teaching you, helping you, guiding you towards improving your experience of the world around you and all of the people in it.

You are living a life surrounded by spirit, Dear One, seeped in the divine.

All you need to do to begin to benefit from this reality, is to acknowledge it.

We want to make this as simple for you as we possibly can, Dear One.

Forgiveness has absolutely, positively, nothing whatsoever to do with them.

It is simply the act of releasing your connection to something that no longer serves you,  releasing your bond with something that you no longer want to remain connected to.

It is letting go of the rope, removing your hand from the hot stove, exiting the burning building.

Clean up, Dear One. There is an abundance of “clutter” around you that quite frankly, you would feel so much better without. There is an excess of uncertainty, restraint, and frustration in your life.  There is too much self pity, self-doubt, fear and need for approval.  It will be much easier for you to create the life that want for yourself when your space is not full of all of the things that you don’t want.

Are you ready let go and be rid of these things?  It is easier to do then you might think.

Here is the trick:  Do nothing.  That’s it.   That’s all.  Do nothing and all of the excesses in your life will fade away, diminish, be gone.

Do nothing to acknowledge them.  Do nothing to feed them.  Do nothing to indulge them or justify them or explain them or rationalize them.  Do not apologize for them.  Do not track how long you have had them.  Do absolutely nothing to, or for them anymore……and they will go away.

As soon as you stop feeding, fueling and acknowledging that which you longer want, that which no longer serves you, it will cease to be.  It is your attention to something that causes it to grow, that gives it energy and definition, that attracts more of it to you.  So instead of giving even the smallest amount of your attention to that which is unwanted, try instead, to give it only to that which is wanted.  And then watch those things begin to take on a place of dominance in your life.

Clean up your thoughts, Dear One and you will begin to clean up your life.

Today we want you to count your blessings, Dear One.

Why?

Because when you are counting your blessings you are not counting your challenges, your struggles, your heartaches, your disappointments, your fears, your pains, your mistakes, or your losses.

That’s why.