If you are unsure of what it means to love yourself Dear One, of what it looks like to love yourself, of what you are meant to do, of how you are meant to think, speak act, and behave towards yourself in ways that are loving, we will tell you precisely what you can do to figure it out.

Think of someone that you love very much, deeply, purely, totally, and completely.  Imagine how you would care for them, speak to them, think of them, feed them, comfort, them, react and respond to them if they came to you confused, unsure or in need, with a question, a problem, or hurt feelings, with a broken heart, body or spirit.

• Have you got it?
• Are you picturing it?
• Can you imagine what you would do for them?
• Can you imagine how you would treat them?

If you can, then you’ve just found your answer.

In order for your current reality to look and feel and taste and smell more the way you want it to Dear One, you’ve got to be willing to make some sacrifices.

You’ve got to be willing to sacrifice the old story you’ve been telling about yourself, the old image you’ve been holding onto of yourself,  the old patterns that you have been maintaining for yourself.

You’ve got to consciously decide to give them up before you can move on.

Do you think you can do that?

Do you think you can make those sacrifices Dear One?

We do.

And we’ll even help you to get started.

Paint a picture in your head of what you want your life to look like, to feel like, to be like Dear One.  Allow yourself to really go there in your heart.  Stay in this place, creating as much detail as you possibly can until you find yourself smiling and enjoying the experience you are creating for yourself.

Got it?

Now start living and acting, and making choices and decisions as if you were already there.

Do you want to know what’s  coming next Dear One?  Do you want to know what is headed your way right now?

The short answer is: It depends

• When you create peacefully, when you think, speak, act, and feel at peace, you are creating peace, you are attracting peacefulness to you, you are in the process of manifesting peaceful people, events, and circumstances into your life.

• When you create from a place of stress, from a place of agitation, desperation, or hopelessness, from a place of fear, lack, or greed, with a lack of compassion, empathy, or forgiveness, you are engaging in the process of manifesting into your life people, events, and circumstances that will bring you more of the same.

So if you want to know what is coming next Dear One, if you want to know what is headed your way right now, start paying attention to how you are feeling, what you are thinking, what you are saying, how you are behaving, and the attitude with which you are doing it all, and it won’t take long for you to figure it out.

• Don’t worry that you have missed out Dear One.
• Don’t worry that you made the wrong choice, waited too long, or missed the boat.
• You have not. You did not. You can not.

Do you know what the universal force is that dictates the experiences, people, and relationships that you are and are not meant to have in your life?

You are it!

If it didn’t happen, if you didn’t choose it, then it was not meant to be.  It’s just that simple.

So don’t worry, regret or fret over that which was not Dear One.

Instead enjoy, give your attention to, celebrate that which was, that which is, instead.

And if you should find yourself in the all too common situation where you have made a choice that you are not enjoying – accept it, learn from it, and choose again.

Unfortunately Dear One, avoidance is not going to help you to relieve your anxiety.

Neither is confrontation, bravery, denial, will-power, brute strength, comradery, or perseverance.

The only thing that is going to do it, that is going to bring you relief for any sustainable length of time is trust, is learning how to trust yourself again.

And how, you might ask, are you suppose to do that?

The same way that you learn how to do anything else.

You practice.

It’s easy to be grateful for all that you’ve got Dear One.

It’s wise to be grateful for that which is missing, for that which you want but don’t yet have

Why?

Because gratitude is so much more than you think it is. It is so much more than just a feeling, an attitude, or a mindset of appreciation.

It is also a powerful act of creation.

When you are grateful, when you are feeling gratitude, you are actively engaging in the process of creating more of whatever it is you are grateful for, of inviting more of it into your life.

That’s why.

We want to make this as simple for you as we possibly can, Dear One.

Forgiveness has absolutely, positively, nothing what so ever to do with them.

It is simply the act of releasing your connection to something that no longer serves you,  releasing your bond with something that you no longer want to remain connected to.

It is letting go of the rope that is dragging you, removing your hand from the hot stove that is burning you, abandoning the sinking ship.

What if you knew Dear One, with absolute certainty, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that everything was going to be ok, that everything was going to work out?

• How do you think you would feel?
• How do you think you would behave?
• How do you think you would love, work, play, choose, sleep, eat, shop, connect?

Differently than you do now?

Want to find out?

Then all you need to do is this one simple thing – Trust.

Trust us when we tell you this Dear One, with absolute certainty, beyond a shadow of a doubt –  Everything is going to be ok, everything is going to work out.

You can count on it – and act accordingly.

Change is coming, Dear One. It is headed your way right now.

While you are busy trying to decide whether or not you are ready for it, it is coming anyway.

The only say that you really have in the matter is whether or not you are going to recognize it, acknowledge it, embrace and accept it when it gets here.

You can choose not to if that is what you want.

But it is coming regardless Dear One.  There is no stopping it.

Rise and shine, Dear One.

There is no need for you to be afraid. There is no need for you to be fearful or trepidatious of the day ahead.

We are here with you and we are going to do this with you, we are going to walk this path with you, we are going to take this journey together.

We will be with you today, as we are with you every day.

So as you rise Dear One, keep us close to your heart, know that you are not alone, know that you are loved, supported, and being guided, know that you have great wisdom and unlimited creative power at your disposal.

And knowing all this, with great confidence, allow yourself to shine.