If you are not being yourself Dear One, who cares what they think of you, who cares if they like you?

What would be the point really of getting someone to like some person that you are pretending to be?

Wishing it away Dear One, praying for it to disappear, hoping that it will exit your life forever, will not bring you any relief, will not change anything in any meaningful way for the better.

But imagining you life without it will!

Can you see and appreciate the difference?

When you think you’ve reached the end of the road Dear One, when you think that you’ve tried everything, when it looks like you’ve run out of options, and you’ve got no where else to turn, remember this:

You’ve always got at least one more choice to make.

As you know very well from experience Dear One, there are an unlimited number of paths that you can follow that will get you from here to there.

There is no one single “right” path that you must take to get where you are trying to go.

But there are more and less direct paths that you can follow to get you there.

Would you like to know how to get yourself on the most direct path there is?

Listen to your heart, follow your instincts, trust your intuition, act on your hunches and move forward with confidence, enthusiasm, and excitement knowing that you will find all that you need to succeed along the way.

• You are not here to be liked Dear One – You are here to be yourself and make connections.

• You are not here to find “The One” — You are here to know true love.

• You are not here to win awards — You are here to create, bravely, confidently, authentically, and from the heart.

• You are not here to accumulate wealth — You are here to have an experience of abundance.

• You are not here to achieve notoriety — You are here to learn just how powerful, creative, and capable you really are.

Are you starting to get the idea?

Do you want to know how to find someone who “gets you” Dear One?
Do you want to know what you need to do to surround yourself with more people who really “get” who you are?

We’ll tell you.

Don’t go in search of them. Don’t exert a great amount of time, energy and effort seeking them out.  There is no need.

Just be yourself.  Reveal more of yourself, of who you really are to the world around you and all of the people in it, in everthing that you do, as often as you possibly can, and they will find you!

If you truly want things to be different Dear One, you’re going to have to start thinking differently, believing differently and acting differently.

There is nothing that any force in the universe can do to help you, until you do

If someone that you love Dear One, is not living up to your expectations of them, instead of being disappointed, instead of trying to change them, instead of trying to fix them, instead of trying to force yourself to stop loving them in order to put an end to your unhappiness, why not simply change your expectation of them instead?

Just a suggestion.

There is nothing more potent Dear One, more electric, exciting, powerful, or more full of potential for creating abundance than a brilliant idea.

There is no more commanding or concentrated positive point of attraction in all of the universe.

If you are fortunate enough to discover one, to come up with one on your own, or to have someone else share one with you, don’t make the mistake of ignoring it, dismissing it, belittling it, or rationalizing it away.

Act on it, immediately. Take the bait, run with the ball, get carried away, be inspired and take whatever action is necessary, as soon as you possible can, to turn it into a reality.

And do you know makes an idea brilliant Dear One?

We’ll tell you.

You deciding it is so.

The next time that you find yourself getting angry, frustrated, fearful or anxious Dear One, when things don’t go according to plan we want you to ask yourself, which you are more committed to, the experience of the journey or the path?