You can choose to be your stories greatest victor, Dear One, or its most tragic victim.

The pen is in your hand.

What’s it going to be?

Write yourself well.

What’s the big deal about saying “I can’t” , Dear One?

We’ll tell you.

Once you decide that you can’t, once you make up your mind and choose to believe this as your truth, it will become your truth.  And when it does, doors will immediately begin to disappear from your sight as a result.

Once you decide that you can’t, you cut yourself off from countless possibilities, you cut yourself off from so many experiences that are and have always been available to  you.

And once that happens, you are no longer able to see the world as it really is – infinite.  You are no longer able to see the truth of your reality, the truth that anything is possible –  and your worldview begins to get smaller.  And the smaller it gets, the more cut off you feel.  And the more cut off you feel, the more you close doors.  And the more you encounter closed doors, the more you begin to experience and believe in a reality defined by your self imposed limitations.  And the more that happens, the harder it becomes for you remember what the world looks like and feels like when anything was possible.

So yes, Dear One, saying I can’t is a very big deal.

Please don’t do so lightly.

You want to change your past, Dear One?

You go right on ahead and do it.

Don’t you dare for one minute believe that you can’t.

No, you don’t have the ability to go back in time and change the details, the course of events, the physical acts that took place.

But what you do have the ability to do, is far more powerful than that.

You have the ability to redefine them, to change your perspective of them, to change your relationship to them, to change their significance to you, and to change their meaning and importance in your life today.

The single most important thing that you can do for yourself in this moment to restore balance, Dear One, is to allow balance to be restored.

How do you do that?
One conscious decision at a time.

Before you take any action, always ask yourself this:

•  Will this choice, will this behavior, will this meal, will this drink, will this purchase, will this person, will this conversation, will this decision, bring me closer to achieving a state of balance in my life or carry me farther away from it?

If you want to restore balance, Dear One, if that is truly your goal, do this and it will not be long until you are once again experiencing it.

Do you want to make a difference today, Dear One?  Do you want to do something significant, something that really matters?

Take really, really, really, good care of yourself

Know, Dear One, that the universe is very good at filling up empty spaces with wonderful things, if you let it.

Just because there is more for you to learn, Dear One, more for you to figure out, to do, try, experience, heal, and become, does not mean that you are lacking, broken, deficient or less than in any way, shape, or form.

Through our eyes, you are and always will be glorious, divine, beautiful, creative, and loved, an absolutely essential part of the whole, just the way you are, right now.

A flower does not ask why, or how, or when to blossom, Dear One.  It just happens.

Circumstances and conditions dictate the rate, and speed, and timing of growth, as well as the characteristics of the individual seed.

The flower does not choose them, it discovers them.

You’ll flourish under the right circumstances , Dear One. Just pay attention; to what feels good and what feels better.

Some plants flourish in direct sunlight, and others in the shade.

You are not a less beautiful or less valuable flower if direct sunlight causes you to wilt.

The optimal conditions for you will not be the optimal conditions for them.

Let them bloom where they are most nourished, and allow yourself to do the same, without guilt, shame, or remorse.

Embrace your optimal conditions, Dear One, and don’t you dare for one minute feel badly that they are not for everyone. They are not feeling badly for you.

When the conditions are right for you, you’ll know it.  There is no need for you to question them.  Your only job is to embrace them, enjoy them, and to allow yourself to flourish in them when you discover them. And to grow.

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If you are looking to create more chaos in your life, Dear One, then here is what you should do:

• Choose to seek out, focus on, talk about, think about, and allow chaotic situations, circumstances, people, events, images and experiences to dominant as much of your time and attention as you possibly can.

The same holds true for creating health, balance, peace, love, laughter, inspiration, abundance, beauty, integrity, truth, compassion, strength, and clarity too.

You can create more of absolutely anything that you want this way.

So, now you know how it’s done!

Create from an angry, frustrated, stressed out, fearful place, Dear One, and no matter how hard you work, how hard you try, how good your intentions are, the very best that you are ever going to be able to do is create more of the same.

You can’t make an apple pie with peaches.

Make sense?