What you ask for is what you receive Dear One.  Whether you are asking consciously or unconsciously –  whether you are asking with a clear intention or with an unconscious conditioned response – it matters not – you are getting what you are asking for.

Life is responding to you, your energy, your thoughts, your beliefs, your attitudes, your vibration.   That is how you are asking.  And like attracts like Dear One.  That is why what you put out there is what comes back to you.

So if what you have now, if the circumstances, events, people and opportunities surrounding  you/coming your way, are not what you want them to be, then it is time for you to start asking for something else.