It is not a choice weather or not you have conflict in your life Dear One.  It is most certainly an experience that will arise from time to time.

But most often it is not the conflict itself that is the source of you pain, discomfort, anger, frustration, racing heart or sweaty palms.  It is your response to it.  And the response that you choose impacts your flow of energy and as a result the quality of the solutions that will present themselves to you/that you will take notice of.

Don’t dig in, tense up or pinch yourself off from your source of well-being in fear, anger or self righteousness when dealing with conflict.  Relax, be gentle, go with the flow and allow your energy to rise as you seek a resolution.

Choose your response consciously Dear One.  When you do, you just might be surprised to discover the source of your conflict dissipating quickly and the circumstances surrounding it rising up to meet you.