Don’t leave it all up to chance Dear One.  There is no need for that.  Start today – Right now, creating the future that you want – aligning yourself with those things that you desire most.

Go there in your heart first and your physical reality will follow soon after.  See it – feel it – anticipate its arrival with certainty, excitement and enthusiasm.  Be as certain as if you successfully placed your order online and are simply waiting for your package to arrive right to your front door.

Don’t take a chance Dear One by not setting a clear intention, by simply waiting and seeing what shows up for you.

You don’t need to wait and see to know what it is that you are wanting most.  So why just wait and see if what you are wanting most will show up for you – especially when you have the ability to create it for yourself.

Sometimes it takes witnessing someone else’s success to gain clarity on your own desires Dear One.

Condemning others for getting there first will never serve you.  Jealousy or envy won’t ever help to bring you closer to that which you are wanting.

But an open mind will – Gratitude will – Enthusiasm will – Joyous anticipation will – Positive action will.

Let the lives and successes of others inspire you, motivate you, show you what’s possible.  Be grateful to those who have gotten there first.  Express gratitude towards them for paving the path and showing you the way.

Gratitude and joyous anticipation will help you reach your goals at a much faster rate than frustration and jealousy will Dear One, and they make for much more pleasurable travel companions.

Allow  yourself to be at peace in the present moment Dear One –

And you will be at peace  for all of eternity.

Taking a chance is meant to be an exhilarating, exciting, even thrilling experience Dear One. It is meant to be unnerving, uncomfortable and maybe even a little bit scary. It is meant to take you beyond the edge of what is known and familiar to you.

It is not about certainty, safety, security or limits. Those are very different experiences all together. Not better or worse. Just different.

If you want to have the experience of taking a chance, don’t wait until you are certain, don’t plan out all of the details – – enjoy the exhilaration of the unknown – the thrill of stepping into who knows what.

That is the point after all, isn’t it?

Your expectations are a moving target Dear One.   They shift as frequently as your needs….. as your moods.

When you need more – you expect more.

When you need less – you tend to expect less and be much more forgiving.

Expectations change – often.  So be careful not to put too much emphasis or importance on having them met.

Eliminate them all together and you will be eliminating one of the greatest sources of disappointment from your life.  Just something to think about.

You know you don’t have to try so hard to be nice and accommodating to others Dear One if you are not feeling nice and accommodating.  Yes, of course you always want to be respectful, courteous and accepting of others.  But know that there is no less courteous an act then that of being inauthentic, false or phony.

Don’t pretend to like something that you don’t.  Don’t pretend to agree when you disagree.  Especially if you are doing so out of respect.  Because we can assure you that there is nothing respectful about being inauthentic Dear One.

Whenever you begin to feel badly Dear One, think about something that makes you smile instead.

And that knot inside you – will begin to let go.

Try it and see.

What’s the worst that could happen?

What you ask for is what you receive Dear One.  Whether you are asking consciously or unconsciously –  whether you are asking with a clear intention or with an unconscious conditioned response – it matters not – you are getting what you are asking for.

Life is responding to you, your energy, your thoughts, your beliefs, your attitudes, your vibration.   That is how you are asking.  And like attracts like Dear One.  That is why what you put out there is what comes back to you.

So if what you have now, if the circumstances, events, people and opportunities surrounding  you/coming your way, are not what you want them to be, then it is time for you to start asking for something else.

The trouble Dear One is that you think that you live in a world of absolutes. And you don’t. The world does not work that way. There are no absolutes in life – except one.

The one thing that you can always absolutely rely on is the fact that you will always have a choice. Always, always, always do you have options, in every single situation. Every one – without fail.

Whenever you feel frustrated, helpless, trapped or as if you are moving in the wrong direction – stop and remind yourself that there are choices available to you in that moment. If the thoughts that you are thinking are not bringing you joy – choose different ones. If the company that you are keeping is not pleasurable for you – change it. If you have set standards for yourself that you consistently find yourself falling short of, and feeling badly about, change them.

It can be just that simple Dear One, if you choose to allow it to be so.

You, Dear One, will not, can not, fail at life.

It is impossible – can’t be done.

So stop worrying about it – and get on with living.