When push comes to shove Dear One – Relax – Breathe – Let go.

Do not push. – – Do not shove.

Stand aside.

Let those pushing, push along without you. – – Let those shoving, shove right by.

Believe us when we tell you, you don’t want to go where they are going.

You cannot force your way to happiness.  You cannot push your way to contentment.  You cannot shove your way to comfort or respect or love or anything else worth having Dear One.  You cannot force yourself into a state of joy by trying to force someone else out of one, and neither can they.

When those around you start pushing and shoving Dear One, do yourself a favor and let them do it without you.  Let them pass.  The sooner that they do, the faster that they are out of your way, the faster you can be back on your way towards something truly valuable.