Emotional security is a state of mind Dear One.

The only thing that it requires is you.

You can choose it anytime that you would like.

You can choose it when you have the partner that you want, or the job that you want, or the salary that you want, or the house that you want, or the family that you want, or the body that you want –OR-  you can choose to experience it right now, just as you are.

It’s totally and completely up to you.