Your life matters Dear One, your life has meaning, your actions have meaning, your thoughts, values, opinions, beliefs, all have meaning, not when someone else sees value in them, believes in them, approves of them, supports them, or agrees with them – but when you do.

So you can stop looking to the opinions, beliefs, actions, and reactions of those around for the answer to this question.  You can stop looking into their eyes.

You won’t find it there.  They don’t have it.  And neither do we.

You’re going to have to rely on yourself to answer this one Dear One.

So, what do you think?  Do you matter?

Maybe you are not losing your edge Dear One.

Maybe you are in the process of creating a new one, a better one.

Did you ever think of that?

Take care of you Dear One.

There will never be a time in your life when this piece of advice will not be relevant, so remember it, always.

The moment that you decide that you are ready to embrace order in your life Dear One, your life will begin to become orderly.

Why?

Because once you decide, once you become certain of what it is that you want, your attitude, your choices, your actions, and  your behaviors will all begin to support that decision.

Once you decide Dear One, you will seek out, choose, create and attract order over chaos.

The hard part is not creating what you want.

The hard part is deciding what it is that you really want to create.

If letting go feels too difficult for you Dear One – if you feel as if you don’t know how to do it –  if you feel as if you are not strong enough or brave enough, or certain enough to do it, – if you are afraid of what will happen to you or  those around you if you do it – if just the thought of it is a source of anxiety, stress or distress for you, we’ve got a very simple solution to offer.

Don’t. Don’t do it.  Don’t let go.

Instead, focus your energy, your attention, your awareness on something else, on something that you want, on something that brings you joy, on something that makes you feel good, on an object of desire, on something that inspires, motivates and excites you, on something that energizes you, on something that you want more of in your life, not less of.

That’s it.  That’s all.  That’s the solution.

Your attention to something binds it to you Dear One, attracts it towards you, makes it a part of your reality.

So can you guess what your lack of attention to something will do?

• You are powerful creator Dear One.
• You are capable of doing anything that you set your mind to
• You have the ability to heal others, as well as yourself, with your choices, words and actions
• You have a great capacity for compassion and forgiveness
• Your life matters
• Your contributions make an impact
• You are worthy of great love

Our criticism of you Dear One, is that you don’t agree with us, you don’t yet believe all of these things to be true about yourself.

And we can assure you, that they most definitely are.

Do you think you could work on that?

What if, in this moment Dear One, you decided to love yourself unconditionally, to nurturer yourself, to honor yourself, to forgive, care for and prioritize yourself, to accept yourself exactly where and as you are, to be a peace?

What if, in this moment, you decided to remember that you are worthy, that you are divine, that the reason that you are here is to have a joyful experience of being alive?

If you did this Dear One, would the next choice that you make, the next answer that you give, the next action that you take, the next words that you speak, the next thought that you think, be any different?

When you find something that you love Dear One, something that allows you to open up to an experience of love, you don’t have to question it, try to understand it, analyze it, doubt it, begin wondering if it is “real”, or how long it will last.

You are allowed to simply enjoy it, without understanding why.

Really, you are.

Don’t you dare start this day off with regret Dear One.

Living is choosing.

If you don’t like/feel good about the choices that you made yesterday, don’t regret them, learn from them and choose differently today.

No matter how badly you feel, no matter how badly you made them feel, no matter how much you punish yourself, or those around you, regret will not solve, fix, change or improve anything for the better Dear One.

It never has and it never will.

Regret won’t help you or them to forget, forgive, connect, improve, repair, restore, heal or move on.

But forgiveness will – hope will – courage will – faith will – strength, love, kindness, and compassion will.

If you want to make it right Dear One, regret is not the answer you are looking for.

Make a different choice.

Mistakes can be corrected, apologies can be made, wounds can heal, forgiveness can be granted, minds can change, but today can never be relived Dear One.

We are not encouraging you to live it carelessly.

We are encouraging you to live it fully.