Don’t help them to carry their burden Dear One.

If you want to be useful, help them to put it down instead.

When is it that you typically start thinking about quitting Dear One?

What we have witnessed is that it is usually when you find yourself in a situation/experiencing something, that makes you feel as if you are not succeeding, as if you are failing.

You typically want to quit when you think that you can’t finish, win or cope, or when you do not see enough evidence of success.

Well you should know Dear One, that the only time that you will ever find evidence of failure, or of a lack of success, is when you go looking for it.

So don’t!

What kind of life do you want to live Dear One?

• What kind of person do you want to be?
• What kind of work do you want to do?
• What kind of impact to do you want to make?
• What kind of impression do you want to leave behind?

Do your thoughts, words, actions, values, beliefs and attitude align with your desires?

If they don’t, do you think that perhaps you could pay closer attention to your choices and make the necessary adjustments so that they do?

There is nothing more exciting, fulfilling or empowering Dear One, then identifying a desire and then choosing your way into alignment with it.

And there is nothing that we would love more than to see you have that experience.

It is only scary before you try Dear One, before you know.

If you want to move past the fear, you’re going to have to do it and find out.

Don’t try harder Dear One.

Try more joyfully.

Remember Dear One, you don’t have to choose to go with their flow, to get caught up in their energy, to move to their rhythm, to dance to their beat, to take part in their story.

You can if you want to!

You can choose to participate, to get swept up in, to interact with, and respond to it if you would like.  And Dear One — and this is so very important that we want you to pay very close attention to what we are going to tell you next, ok?  Here it goes.

You can also choose not to.

When you see they are hurting, when you see they are struggling, when you see they are lost, confused or in pain and want to help, but don’t know how — Love them Dear One.

There is no more useful thing that you can do.

We know that sometimes love does not seem like enough, but trust us, it is.

Love heals. Love inspires. Love transforms.  Love can do a great many things.

• Don’t pity them
• Don’t fear for them
• Don’t be sad for them
• Don’t join them in their grief

See them as well.  See them as whole.  See them as prosperous.  See them as confident.  See them healed.  See them as the person that they want to be.  Hold an image of them in your mind and in your heart of them that they are not yet able to hold for themselves.

You can’t give your attention to their pain, to their struggle, to their problem and help to be a part of the solution Dear One.

If you really want to help, if you really want to make a difference, just keep loving them.

It truly is the best and most useful thing that you can do, for them and for you.

What they think of you does not determine  your worth Dear One.

But what you think of you does.

So, what do you think of you?

The energy that creates worlds is within you right now Dear One, flowing to you, flowing through you, flowing from you.  Whether you choose to believe it or not, whether you are conscious of it or not, you are swimming in it, interacting with it, creating with it, every minute of every day.

And yet you act as if all is ordinary, unremarkable, unchanging in your world – you behave as if something miraculous is not happening to you, right now.

Well you should know Dear One, that it is.