Love does not hurt Dear One.

If you are hurting, if you are feeling badly, if you are feeling rejected, alone, abused, afraid, or isolated, then you can be absolutely certain that what you are feeling, that what you are focusing on, is not love.

It is something else.

If love is what you want to be feeling, if love is what you want to be experiencing at this point in time, you are going to have to choose to focus your attention elsewhere.

If at the end of the day Dear One, the only thing that you have accomplished, the only thing that you have to show for all of your effort, is the fact that you didn’t quit, that you didn’t give up, you should smile, feel proud, and congratulate yourself on a job well done, because you would have just accomplished more than most.

Do you want to know how you can be sure that you are making the wise choice Dear One?

We’ll tell you.

The wise choice is never going to be the angry choice.  And it is never going to be the desperate choice either.  Also, you should know, that the wise choice is never going to be the fearful choice, or the insecure choice, or the jealous, vengeful, or spiteful choice.  And it will most definitely not ever be the malicious choice, the resigned choice, the manipulative choice, or the like.

So, if you are trying to figure out what the wise choice is Dear One, know that if the choice you are about to make, resembles any of the above, you have not found it yet.

Why?

Figuring out the answer to this question is not always going to serve you in a useful and positive way Dear One.  In fact, it rarely ever will.

What now?

But figuring out the answer to this question, will always be useful to you.

If what you are in need of is useful answers Dear One, remember that the only way that you are ever going to find them, is by asking useful questions.

When it comes to trust Dear One, there really is only question that you need to know the answer to.

And it is not the one that you have been asking.  It is not; Can you trust them?

The only question that you really need to know the answer to Dear One is; Do you trust you?

The right thing to do cannot be determined by thinking it through Dear One, no matter how much time you dedicate to the task.  Thought will always be limited by experience.

And the right thing to do is rarely the logical choice.  As we are sure that you have learned first hand by now, logic can be grossly deceptive.

If you want to know how to figure out what the right thing for you to do is Dear One, we’ll tell you.

The right thing for you to do, is always going to be, whatever it is that your heart is telling you to do.

So save yourself a lot of  time, energy, and frustration, and trust it.

We promise you Dear One, that no matter what is going on in your life, that no matter what is going on within you and around you, that the second that you choose to put a smile on your face – the kind that blossoms in your heart, and grows and grows, and grows, up, and up, and up, until it pushes up the corners of your lips – things will start changing for the better.

You’ve got nothing to lose.

Why not give it a try?

Your body is talking to you all the time Dear One.

Make a point of listening to it today, trusting its wisdom, and taking action on its behalf.

Do this and you will start to feel a whole lot better, a whole lot faster, then if you continue ignoring its cries.

If someone that you love Dear One, is not living up to your expectations of them, instead of being disappointed, instead of trying to change them, instead of trying to fix them, instead of trying to force yourself to stop loving them in order to put an end to your unhappiness, why not simply change your expectation of them instead?

Now, wouldn’t that be easier?