Change is coming Dear One. It is headed your way right now.

While you are busy trying to decide whether or not you are ready for it, it is coming anyway.

The only say that you really have in the matter is whether or not you are going to recognize it, acknowledge it, embrace and accept it when it gets here.

You can choose not to if that is what you want.

But it is coming regardless Dear One.  There is no stopping it.