Change is coming Dear One. It is headed your way right now.

While you are busy trying to decide whether or not you are ready for it, it is coming anyway.

The only say that you really have in the matter is whether or not you are going to recognize it, acknowledge it, embrace and accept it when it gets here.

You can choose not to if that is what you want.

But it is coming regardless Dear One.  There is no stopping it.

If you don’t like something the way that it is Dear One, let it be.

That’s right. You heard us correctly.

Don’t try to fix it, fight it, change it, improve it or make it better in any way.

Simply let it be exactly as it is and make the decision to shift your attention towards that which is wanted instead.

Doing so will be a much more efficient, effective and pleasant use of your time.

Trust us.

Do you want to know how to be loved the way that you want to be loved Dear One?

Love yourself well.

Show them how it’s done.

We promise you Dear One, that everything will be ok, that you will never be without us, that there is no limit to what is possible for you, that inspiration is divine guidance and that following it will never lead you astray, that you will always be beautiful in the eyes of spirit, that you will be loved for all of eternity, that there is always an answer, that you are never trapped, that you can heal from anything, that nothing lasts forever, that if you can imagine it you can create it, and that we always keep our promises.

Regardless of just how sticky things may get Dear One, you should know that you always have two options available to you at all times:

• Create more of what is by focusing your attention on it
• Create less of what is by focusing your attention elsewhere

Remember that despite the way that things may look, you are always the one in control of determining just how stuck you allow yourself to become in any situation.

People make mistakes Dear One (yourself included).  It happens.

Berating them for it, making them feel badly about it, attempting to scold or punish them when they do, is not going to serve anyone or anything in any positive way.

Bitching, complaining, ranting and raving, while it may feel good and appropriate in the moment, will not help them or you to turn things around, or improve the situation at all. But, focusing your attention on the desired outcome, on identifying a solution, on making things better, on where things can go from here, will.

We know that it can be frustrating when things don’t work out, when things don’t go according to plan. But the truth is that regardless of how much you wish it could be otherwise, the past can not be changed.  What’s done is done, and can never be undone.  And the longer that you continue to focus on that which is unwanted, on that which went “wrong”, the longer it will persist along with your negative feelings about it.

If what you want is to turn things around when a mistake is made, to improve upon what is Dear One, the best most effective thing that you can do for yourself and for them in order to make that happen is to choose an improved thought, an improved attitude, an improved perspective on the situation, on what is, and on what can and will be, as fast as you possible can.

Like right now.

The day does not require you to be brilliant Dear One. It does not require you to be funny, witty, charming, smart, strong or thin either.

All that this day requires of you is that you be yourself and do your best.

That does not mean being better than anyone else. And it does not mean being better than you used to be.

It simply means doing the very best that you can do, from right where you are, here, now, today.

Some people will tell you that wishful thinking will get you nowhere Dear One, that it is useless, pointless and a waste of your time.

Well, we are here to tell you that those people are wrong.

The truth is that it is wishful thinking that gets you everywhere.

So if you are not already doing it, if you are not already allowing yourself to feel the pure pleasure, joy and excitement of dreaming about, thinking of and wishing for all that you need, want and desire, start doing so today, right now.

You are the creator of your reality Dear One, joyfully imagining it the way that you want it to be is one of the most realist steps that you take in the process of creating it.