Practice patience Dear One, move with intention, joy, and clarity, rather than speed, and watch as the distance between where you are and where you want to be shrinks at the speed of thought.

Why?

Figuring out the answer to this question is not always going to serve you in a useful and positive way Dear One.  In fact, it rarely ever will.

What now?

But figuring out the answer to this question, will always be useful to you.

If what you are in need of is useful answers remember that the only way that you are ever going to find them, is by asking useful questions.

So many of you keep asking us and yourselves “What went wrong?”

When things don’t go according to plan, when things don’t turn out as expected, when things don’t go as desired, as you hoped they would, as you wanted them to, as you needed them to, the first thing you very often ask when the dust begins to settle is “What did I do wrong?”

And we can tell you Dear One.  We have the answer to that question.

Here it is:  You did absolutely nothing wrong.

How do we know?  How can we say for sure?

Because there is no such thing as right or wrong. Right or wrong are judgments.  There is only connection or disconnection, allowing or resistance, living your life with an open heart or a closed one.

That is all.

So the next time that things go awry, in a very small inconsequential way, or in a very large and significant way, instead asking yourself “What did I do wrong?”, trying asking yourself this: Did I choose connection or disconnection? Did I choose allowing or resistance? Did I choose with an open heart or a closed one?

Do that Dear One, and what you will end up with will not be a list of judgements against yourself, a list of your faults, mistakes, bad decisions, or weakness.  But you will end up with is a list of insightful, useful, positive, hopeful and actionable solutions instead.

Whatever your preference is for hearing guidance Dear One, whatever you belief, is the way that it will best be received by you.

You are the one who dictates the terms of your hearing us, not us.

We come in all forms, all shapes, all sizes, all tongues, all colors and venues.

You need not go searching for us Dear One.

We are always here, a part of all that you do – all that you have been – all that you are becoming.

You will hear us, see us, feel us, whenever you decide that you are ready to.

You will hear us, see us, feel us, whenever you are ready to start paying attention.

Look. Listen. Feel. Trust.

We are here Dear One.

Always.

You are not meant to already have all of the answers Dear One.

You are meant to discover them through the experience of living.

That is what you are here for.

So cut yourself a little slack, okay?

Know that nothing about you needs to change for you to be loved Dear One.   You are already loved, totally, completely and eternally – just as you are.

You may think that a partner is necessary to make feeling the experience of love possible.  And experiencing love with a partner is one way to experience it, but it is not the only way.  And we are not talking about sex, although that is a part of it.  It is not a partner that makes love possible.  It is not a partner that is creating the love Dear One.

Love already exists – ready for you to experience anytime that you choose.

With a partner is just the way that you have learned to open yourself up to the experience of love in your physical reality.  But if you choose to, you can experience the love that is already yours without one as well.

How?

By simply choosing to believe our words:

You are already loved Dear One, totally, completely and eternally – just as you are.

Don’t leave it all up to chance Dear One.  There is no need for that.  Start today – Right now, creating the future that you want – aligning yourself with those things that you desire most.

Go there in your heart first and your physical reality will follow soon after.  See it – feel it – anticipate its arrival with certainty, excitement and enthusiasm.  Be as certain as if you successfully placed your order online and are simply waiting for your package to arrive right to your front door.

Don’t take a chance Dear One by not setting a clear intention, by simply waiting and seeing what shows up for you.

You don’t need to wait and see to know what it is that you are wanting most.  So why just wait and see if what you are wanting most will show up for you – especially when you have the ability to create it for yourself.