Don’t wait for them to decide Dear One, before you make your decision.

Release your dependency on them, and your expectations of them.

• Let them follow their bliss, and you follow yours
• Let them move at their pace, and you move at yours
• Let them decide what is best for them, and you decide what is best for you

Because in the end your happiness is not determined by what they think, what they say, what they do, what they choose, or when they choose to do it.

It is determined by how you do all of those things.

What thought could you think Dear One, that would bring you the greatest amount of joy, the greatest amount of pleasure, the greatest amount of happiness if you were to think it right now?

Have you got it in your mind?

Good!

We have a challenge for you today, Dear One.

We would like for you to make a commitment to yourself to only speak your truth all day long, and to take notice of how it feels to do so.

What does that mean?

•  That you will remain conscious and think before you speak
• That you will only answer questions from you heart, and not from habit, obligation, insecurity or fear
• That you will only say what you really mean, and not what you think you are supposed to say, what you think they need you to say, or what you think they are expecting you to say.

Taking this one on will require you to be vulnerable, courageous, thoughtful, honest, and trusting.

What do you think?  Are you up for it?

EITHER choose to get excited, be excited Dear One, for the arrival of that which you are wanting most.

Don’t give up on it. Don’t give your attention to its absence. Don’t stand still and wait for it to get here.

Keep moving, keep choosing, keep putting one foot in front of the other, with excitement, anticipation, confidence and certainty – towards it, consciously and enthusiastically holding it as your dominant point of attraction.

OR you can choose to move forward with longing, apprehension, worry, doubt, frustration, and fear instead – and make that your dominant point of attraction if you would like.

The choice is yours to make.

You are making a contribution to the world around you Dear One, with every thought that you think, every intention that set, every word that you speak, every action that you take.

You can choose to contribute frustration, fear, anger, self-loathing, jealousy, pettiness, revenge, mediocrity or complacency to the world if you would like.

Or you can choose to contribute compassion, bravery, tolerance, laughter, confidence, generosity, optimism, hope, well, you get the idea.

The only thing that you can’t choose Dear One, is to make no contribution at all.

So, have you decided yet what you would like your contribution to be today?

Do you want to know how you turn things around Dear One, how you get it to stop feeling like things are spinning out of control?

We’ll tell you.

Remember that you are the creator of your world. Remember that you are the one in charge, the one deciding, choosing, attracting, and manifesting all that you’ve got, all that you are experiencing, all that is headed your way.

If you want to slow things down, slow them down, if you want to speed things up, speed them up, if you want more or less, bigger or smaller, lighter or darker, (you get the idea) create it, choose it, make it so.  It’s just that simple.

How?

Stop reacting and start creating.

Align your thoughts, energy, words, deeds, and beliefs with what you want Dear One, instead of with what is, and you’ll see what we are talking about.

Some people will tell you that wishful thinking will get you nowhere Dear One, that it is useless, pointless and a waste of your time.

Well, we are here to tell you that those people are wrong.

The truth is that it is wishful thinking that gets you everywhere.

So if you are not already doing it, if you are not already allowing yourself to feel the pure pleasure, joy and excitement of dreaming about, thinking of and wishing for all that you need, want and desire, start doing so today, right now.

You are the creator of your reality Dear One, joyfully imagining it the way that you want it to be is one of the most realist steps that you take in the process of creating it.

Life can be a harrowing experience if you let it be, Dear One.

And it can also be filled with  joy, love, freedom, relief and bliss if you let…it…be.

As always, the choice is there for you to make.