You are not lacking guidance Dear One. That you’ve got in spades.
What you are lacking is the confidence in yourself to believe it when you hear it – to trust it – to act on it.
Instead of asking for, searching for, seeking out more guidance – allow yourself to be courageous enough to act on that which you already know to be true.
Clarity comes with action Dear One. You’ll never know for sure until you try.
There is no beginning, middle and end to you Dear One.
You are, always have been, and always will be, all of these things, all the time, regardless of how you feel, regardless of what you do, regardless of what you say, think, are told, or believe.
And there is absolutely nothing that you can do about it.
If you relax Dear One, let go, allow, breathe, trust, smile, and lighten up a little, things in your life will begin to flow a whole lot more smoothly than they are right now.
We know that you know this already, but from where we are standing, it looked as though you could use the reminder.
The only time that what they say, what they think, and what they believe matters Dear One, is when you decide that it does.
What is it that you are really worried about Dear One?
Are you worried about what is, or are you worried about what maybe could possibly, someday, come to pass a year, a month, a week, a day, or even a minute from now?
If you are going to use your thoughts to project yourself into the future, why not project yourself into a future that you want, one that feels good to you, one that is exciting, healthy, balanced, abundant, and full of life, laughter and love?
Since you are the one doing the choosing, why choose to imagine yourself anywhere but where it is that you really wanted to be?
Change your thoughts Dear One, and you just may find that you have much less to worry about than you thought you did.
Cuando encuentres algo que amas Querido, algo que te ayuda a abrirte a una experiencia de Amor, no hace falta hacer preguntas, no hace falta tratar de comprenderlo ni analizarlo ni dudarlo ni preguntarte si es ‘real’ o cuanto tiempo durará.
Estas permitido disfrutarlo sin entender porque.
De verdad.
More often than not Dear One, it is not the conflict itself that is the source of your pain, discomfort, anger, frustration, racing heart or sweaty palms.
It is your response to it.
It is your response that determines how you feel, what you think, the story that you tell, the flow of your energy, the focus of your attention, and as a result, the quality of the solutions that will present themselves to you or that you will take notice of.
Don’t dig in, tense up, or pinch yourself off from well-being in fear, anger, or self-righteousness when facing a conflict. Relax, be gentle, open up, let go, and allow yourself to connect, allow your energy to rise up, not sink down, as you seek a resolution.
Choose your response consciously Dear One, with intention, clarity, trust, and an open heart, and you just might be surprised to discover the source of your conflict dissipating as you do, and the circumstances surrounding it rising up to meet you.
Remember to be kind today Dear One.
Why?
Because being unkind will not serve you in any useful or positive way.
And that is true for how you treat others as well as for how you treat yourself.
Do you want to know how you can transform even the most complicated situation into a simple one Dear One? We’ll tell you.
When considering all of the possible ways in which you could choose to respond, choose the simplest one, every time.
That is all there is to it!
The best and only way to create simplicity from complexity, is to choose it.
Things can feel out of control Dear One, when your desires and your actions are not in alignment.
So please don’t be surprised when actions motivated by insecurity, obligation, fear, or a sense of loyalty don’t yield you the results that you were hoping for.
Align your actions with your desires Dear One, and watch as the gap between what you and what is showing up for you begins to close.