Unfortunately Dear One, avoidance is not going to help you to relieve your anxiety.
Neither is confrontation, bravery, denial, will-power, brute strength, comradery, or perseverance.
The only thing that is going to do it, that is going to bring you relief for any sustainable length of time is trust, is learning how to trust yourself again.
And how, you might ask, are you suppose to do that?
The same way that you learn how to do anything else.
You practice.
It’s easy to be grateful for all that you’ve got Dear One.
It’s wise to be grateful for that which is missing, for that which you want but don’t yet have
Why?
Because gratitude is so much more than you think it is. It is so much more than just a feeling, an attitude, or a mindset of appreciation.
It is also a powerful act of creation.
When you are grateful, when you are feeling gratitude, you are actively engaging in the process of creating more of whatever it is you are grateful for, of inviting more of it into your life.
That’s why.
We want to make this as simple for you as we possibly can, Dear One.
Forgiveness has absolutely, positively, nothing what so ever to do with them.
It is simply the act of releasing your connection to something that no longer serves you, releasing your bond with something that you no longer want to remain connected to.
It is letting go of the rope that is dragging you, removing your hand from the hot stove that is burning you, abandoning the sinking ship.
El resistirse Querido, puede que sea lo que no te permite cambiar.
Si sientes resistencia al moverte, si sientes que no estas progresando o que estas retrocediendo de vez en cuando, si sientes que que te tienes que aferrar para no perderlo, puede que ya no sea lo correcto para tí y que quizás es hora de largarlo y avanzar sin él.
What if you knew Dear One, with absolute certainty, beyond a shadow of a doubt, that everything was going to be ok, that everything was going to work out?
Differently than you do now?
Want to find out?
Then all you need to do is this one simple thing – Trust.
Trust us when we tell you this Dear One, with absolute certainty, beyond a shadow of a doubt – Everything is going to be ok, everything is going to work out.
You can count on it – and act accordingly.
Change is coming, Dear One. It is headed your way right now.
While you are busy trying to decide whether or not you are ready for it, it is coming anyway.
The only say that you really have in the matter is whether or not you are going to recognize it, acknowledge it, embrace and accept it when it gets here.
You can choose not to if that is what you want.
But it is coming regardless Dear One. There is no stopping it.
Rise and shine, Dear One.
There is no need for you to be afraid. There is no need for you to be fearful or trepidatious of the day ahead.
We are here with you and we are going to do this with you, we are going to walk this path with you, we are going to take this journey together.
We will be with you today, as we are with you every day.
So as you rise Dear One, keep us close to your heart, know that you are not alone, know that you are loved, supported, and being guided, know that you have great wisdom and unlimited creative power at your disposal.
And knowing all this, with great confidence, allow yourself to shine.
Don’t help because you think that you should Dear One – because you think that someone is watching – because you think it is the right thing to do – because you feel pity, fear, guilt or obligation.
Help because you want to. Help because it feels good to you to do so.
Remember, what you put out there is what you get back.
If you don’t mean it Dear One – do yourself a favor, and don’t do it.
However…
Well, you get the idea.
Don’t fake it Dear One.
Choose a different attitude instead, and then help.
If you are constantly feeling like you don’t measure up Dear One, that you are not rich enough, or tall enough, or smart enough or thin enough, etc., we’ve got a very simple solution for you that will help you to get over it in a heartbeat.
Stop measuring.
What if we told you that there was no opposition, Dear One?
What if we told you that there was only you?
What if we told you that you; your thoughts, your actions, your beliefs, were the greatest, and only source of conflict in your life?
Would you respond them any differently, if you knew this to be true?