First, the good news:  You are not in control, Dear One.   You never have been and you never will be.

Now, the better news: Control is not what you want.

Control does not heal and control does not fix.  Control does not restore, guide, balance, connect, or love either.

The truth of the matter is that in the end, control is not all that it is cracked up to be.

So while you don’t have the ability to be in control Dear One, what you do have is so much more valuable, useful, and infinitely more powerful.  And that is an unlimited ability to create.

Creativity,  the power of creation is the key to health, happiness, to balance, to endless possibilities Dear One, not control.

So the next time you feel as if things are out of control, don’t fret, don’t worry, don’t wish or pray that you had control over the situation.  Because that will never happen.

Instead try to remember that you can change it anytime that you would like simply by creating something new

You can create more of anything that you want in your life, Dear One. Absolutely anything.

And it’s not all that difficult to do.

Here’s how it’s done:

• If you are looking to create more chaos, then you should choose to seek out, focus on, talk about, think about, and allow chaotic situations, circumstances, people, events, images and experiences to dominant as much of your attention as you possibly can.
• If you are looking to create more joy, then you should choose to seek out, focus on, talk about, think about, and allow joyful situations, circumstances, people, events, images and experiences to dominant as much of your attention as you possibly can.

The same holds true for health, balance, peace, love, inspiration, abundance, beauty, integrity, truth, compassion, strength, anything really.

So, now that you know how it works Dear One, what are you going to create more of for yourself today?

You can choose to focus your attention on what’s wrong, Dear One, on that which is making you feel badly if you want to, but you should know, that you absolutely don’t have to.

It really is ok for you to just let it go.

Wonder what you’re going to do next.  Wonder what the future will bring.  Wonder how to love more deeply, passionately and without reservations.  Wonder what to have for breakfast – with curiosity, excitement, anticipation and enthusiasm Dear One.  Wonder without limits about all of the endless possibilities for your life. Wonder about all of the choices that are available to you.  But don’t wonder for too long or you will loose the benefit of wondering.

Wondering fuels your actions.  Wondering propels you forward, motivates you, expands your horizons.  But it is only good in moderation.  Think of it like gasoline for your car.  You only need enough gas to fill up the tank – then it’s time to go, until the thank gets low and you need to fill up again.  You don’t want to waste all of your time sitting around at the gas station when there is so much to experience out on the open road.  When your tank is full………go!

Sometimes the best way to be of service, Dear One, to teach them, to guide them, to help them, to support them, to show them the way, is to continue to work on yourself.

Make no mistake. Spending time doing so is one of the least selfish things you can do.

Do you want to know how you can be sure that you are always making the wise choice Dear One?

We’ll tell you.

• The wise choice is never going to be the angry choice.
• The wise choice is never going to be the desperate choice.
• The wise is never going to be the fearful, insecure, jealous, vengeful, or spiteful choice.
• And it is most definitely not ever going to be the malicious, resigned, manipulative, or controlling choice either.

So, if you are trying to figure out what the wise choice is Dear One, and the choice you are about to make comes close to resembling any of the above, know that you have not found it yet.

Life really is simple, Dear One.

It is made up of a series simple decisions, simple choices, simple tasks, and simple relationships, that all come together to create your experience.

If what you are going through right now is anything other than simple, then you can be sure that there is another way, another option, another path available to you in this moment that you can follow that will make it so.

We promise you, Dear One, it ‘s there.

You just need to stop and give yourself the time and space to look for it, simply.

Choosing to hold on, Dear One, just may be the choice that is holding you back.

Something that is right for you, that is a vibration match to you, will move right along with you.

If you have to stop, stand still or move backwards repeatedly or for extended periods of time in order to keep it, if you feel like you are having to hold-on tighter and tighter to keep from losing it, you may want to consider the possibility that it is no longer right for you, and that it may be time for you to let it go and move on without it.

Don’t try so hard today, Dear One.

Take a deep breath, imagine everything working out for the best, and allow instead.

That wall that you’ve just run into, Dear One, that one that you keep banging your head up against, you should know, that it’s not actually a wall.

It’s a door.

And the reason that the door is there Dear One, is not to keep you out.

It’s there for you to open.

And it’s not locked.