The only thing that makes their path more significant than yours, their contributions more valuable than yours, their successes more important than yours, their accomplishments more meaningful than yours, Dear One, is you deeming it so.
Nothing more.
If with one hand you are reaching back, Dear One, holding on to things in your past, and with the other you are reaching out ahead of you, holding on to a vision of your future, is it any wonder that you feel like you are being stretched too thin in the here and now?
You should know, that which is for your greatest good, is and will always be, in the present moment.
The tradition of joining both hands together at your heart for prayer, for meditation, for your daily practice, is meant to be a reminder of this for you.
Be. Here. Now.
Speak up, Dear One. Speak up clearly and speak up often. Speak your truth every chance that you get, in words and in deeds. Be true to your heart, to who you are, to your feelings, your beliefs, and your desires, every second of every minute of every day if you can.
The effects of authenticity are cumulative.
The more you practice it, the more you will see it reflected back to you in the world around you.
We promise you, Dear One, that everything will be ok, that you will never be without us, that there is no limit to what is possible for you, that inspiration is divine guidance and that following it will never lead you astray, that you will always be beautiful in the eyes of spirit, that you will be loved for all of eternity, that there is always an answer, that you are never trapped, that you can heal from anything, that nothing lasts forever, that if you can imagine it you can create it, and that we always keep our promises.
Your thoughts set the tone for your day, Dear One.
You get the gist.
Your thoughts (fueled by your beliefs), not only determine the tone of your day, Dear One, they determine your reaction to, experience with, and interpretation of, every, single, thing that happens to you over the course of your entire life.
THAT is why we keep saying to you, change your thoughts and you can change your experience of every, single, thing that follows.
Life is not setting the tone, Dear One. You are.
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Making up your mind, Dear One, does not need to be such an amazingly complicated, confusing, stress inducing, emotionally painful experience, don’t you know.
The reason that it can feel that way, almost traumatizing at times, is that very often, before any action is even taken, you imagine the end result of every possible future outcome based on the decision that you are about to make, and you mourn the loss of every possible outcome that might never come to pass. And that could drive anyone mad.
The truth is, Dear One, that you have absolutely no way of knowing what tomorrow will bring, or the day after that, or the day after that. And you have absolutely no way of knowing for sure what opportunities will or will not become available to you as a result of the choices that you do or do not make today. So don’t waste your time stressing about it, trying to figure it out. It won’t help.
But, what if, as an alternative to making yourself crazy when it comes time to making up your mind, you decided to make yourself happy instead?
Did you know that any decision that you make joyfully, from a good feeling place, regardless of how impetuous or how well thought out it may be, will always bring you closer to the joy that you are seeking than any made from a place of tension, stress, confusion, turmoil or emotional distress?
It’s true!
Just something to keep in mind the next time you have to make up your mind about something, which will mostly likely be any minute now.
We know who you are, Dear One.
And we know why you’re here.
We knew who you were before you decided to incarnate into this physical reality.
And we remember why you decided to do so.
Do you want to know who you are, Dear One?
You are a powerful creator with the ability to manifest anything your heart desires. You are an essential part of all that is. You are eternal. You are divine. And you never can and never will be anything less. You are someone who is deeply needed, valued, cherished, loved and adored.
Do you want to know why you choose to be here?
To enjoy the experience of it.
Now you know too.
You can never undo that which has been done, Dear One.
It’s impossible.
So please don’t waste your precious time and energy trying.
Once you have had an experience, for better or for worse, it is yours forever.
And regardless of how deeply you wish it could be so, no amount of regret, guilt, remorse, anger, self-pity, self-loathing, sadness, or hatred is ever going to change that.
But know this, that you are never without options, that there is always something that you can do.
It is always within your power, Dear One, to change the way that you feel about it, to change what it means to you, to change its significance in your life.
And changing that, changes everything.
You are a powerful creator, Dear One, and you are always in the process of creating your world, your life, and your self. And you are doing so with every thought that you think, every word that you speak, and every action that you take.
You can choose to believe us or you can choose not to believe us.
Whatever you decide, it will not change the reality of who and what you really are. The only thing that your belief will change. Dear One, is your experience of it.
So what’s it going to be?
Are you going to believe and choose to live your life as a powerful creator that knows it, or as a powerful creator that does not?
Don’t allow yourself to become imprisoned by the choices, decisions and promises that you made yesterday, Dear One.
Your understanding of the world around you is constantly changing and growing. In every moment, the potential exists for you to know something new that you did not know the moment before. This new information is constantly changing your perspective – and this constantly changing perspective is a gift. Don’t throw it away simply because you “adamantly” made a decision about something yesterday.
Today, your new perspective, your current vantage point, might allow you to see something that will make yesterdays perspective obsolete. Embrace those moments when they happen, Dear One. and allow them to change you, change your mind and change your behavior. It would be a real shame to stand in one place all of your life simply because you told someone that you would.
Don’t let your desire to be right or loyal or trustworthy supersede your desire to live your life to the fullest. Don’t let the promises that you made yesterday stop you from living your life today. The truth is that the people that you made them to have changed as well. Their needs, desires and perspectives are not going to the be same forever either.
Honor yourself and your commitments as they make sense in the moment and don’t allow yourself to be ruled by a past that is already gone or a future that does not yet exist.