If you are looking for simple directions, Dear One, that will help you get from where you are to where you want to be, here they are:
Now, get moving!
Don’t give up now, Dear One.
You’re so close.
Right this minute, right where you are, you are only one thought away from feeling so much better.
A willingness to proceed. Sometimes that is all that you need to muster up in yourself, Dear One.
When fear, doubt, confusion, remorse, indecision, sadness or panic even, overwhelm you and you get lost in your current set of circumstances and want nothing more than to shut down, disconnect, give up – if you do nothing more then simply remain open to the idea of continuing to move forward – then you will!
Digging in, stopping in your tracks will not heal, solve, or resolve anything. If fact, it can do the exact opposite of that. Stopping can prolong pain and suffering, confusion, remorse and loneliness.
Life’s current is constantly moving, flowing towards someplace new. If you let go and allow yourself to float for a while – no kicking, no screaming, no splashing about – simply let go and float, before you know it, you will be in a different place. The scenery will have changed and you will find that you have moved on from that place that was no longer serving you.
Fear exists nowhere, Dear One, except within your mind.
The truth is that yes, it does, if you decide that it does.
The best way to forgive, Dear One, is with radical love.
Love yourself so much, so completely and totally, with your whole heart, with every single bit of who you are, so that there is nothing left over to hate with.
LEVEL OF DIFFICULTY: 8 out of 10 (but so totally worth it.)
Please keep front of mind today, Dear One, all day, that you are here to live YOUR life.
You are here to have a very personal and unique experience of being YOU.
Your singular purpose for being alive is to live YOUR life, YOUR way, connected to YOUR source, creating what only YOU can, as only YOU can do it.
You are absolutely not here to follow, mimic, emulate or become more like anyone else. Or to be liked, loved, accepted, admired, respected, or adored by anyone but YOU.
And yes, this message really is meant just for you.
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Fear doesn’t heal, Dear One.
But faith does.
Accepting who you are, Dear One, understanding, trusting, believing, that you are energy, consciousness, a divine spirit having a physical experience, that you are an essential part of all that is, that you are connected to everything and everyone, that you are a powerful creator responsible for the expansion of the universe, changes nothing.
Accept who you really are and nothing will be different, except for your perception of what is, your belief of what can be, your understanding of your connection to all things, your awareness of how you are creating your world, and your experience of everything in it.
Everything will remain exactly the same, Dear One, and nothing will ever be the same again.
When you are hurting, Dear One, when you are in pain, please remember this; you have come to this place to heal this place.
You did not end up here because you did something wrong. You did not end up here because you are being punished. You did not end up here because you are being tested, tortured, or asked to prove yourself.
You ended up here Dear One, for one reason and one reason only, because you are being given an opportunity to heal.
Childhood is over, Dear One. You are no longer a little person living within an environment that you have seemingly no control over. You are an adult and whether you believe it or not, you are able to make decisions for yourself.
When faced with a trial that requires you to face your past, remember that whatever it is, it is no longer your current reality. You don’t have to bring it back into the present moment with you if you choose not to. Others might approach you on the subject with energy, impressions or patterns that used to exist back then. It may still be their reality. That doesn’t mean that it has to continue to be yours.
Remember at those moments, that you can choose not to dive right back into old patterns with them. You can choose to stay right where you are, in the present moment and deal with the situation from where you now stand. Just because they are choosing to engage in old patterns, does not mean that you have to join them in this practice.
When facing the past, Dear One, anchor yourself in the present first, for that is the only place from where you can impact change. KNOW that what you have learned and accomplished for yourself since that time, no one can take away from you, ever.
In the present, you get to decide what your past means to you. You can assign a lot of meaning to it or no meaning at all. That is completely up to you and only you.