We can see that you have a strong desire to live a more authentic life, Dear One, and yet… you don’t.

You allow your fear of rejection, being alone, being wrong, being made fun of, disappointing, being less than perfect, or failing, stop you from trying, stop you from speaking up, stop you from being the real you.

Well, its time to put to an end to that, Dear One.

It’s time for you to join the ranks of the fallible.

• It’s time for you to allow yourself to join those who make mistakes, who fall down, who fail, who don’t always do the right thing at the right time, who sometimes get hurt, and who sometimes, despite their best efforts, hurt others.
• It’s time for you to allow yourself to join those who know that if they fall, they can get back up, that if they fail, they can try again, that if they get hurt, they will heal.
• It’s time for you to allow yourself to join those that know that playing it safe, that not trying, that not speaking up, that not being your authentic self, is and will always be a far more agonizing, frustrating, painful, disappointing and damaging experience in the long run, then not trying ever will be.

You have a significant and powerful gift, Dear One – The ability to see both the best and the worst in the people around you.

Choose to focus your attention on their best, on their strengths, potential,  possibility, on their capacity for change and growth, and you will transform your view, your perspective of what is, and what is possible, and therefore your experience of the world.

People tend to do their best to try and live up to (or down to) the image of themselves they see reflected back to them through the eyes of those around them.

Choose to look for only the best, Dear One, and you will transform their view of themselves, and therefore their experience of the world as well.

You’re never going to be finished, Dear One. You’re never going to get it all done.  So you might as well stop trying.  You might as well stop looking for the end.

Allow yourself to accept and be at peace with this reality.  Allow yourself to enjoy the fact that there is and always will be much for you to do – much for you to practice – much for you to learn – oh so very much for you to experience.

You can choose to allow your constantly expanding reality to be a source of stress in your life, or you can choose to embrace it, enjoy it, relax into it and be excited by the fact that change, growth and renewal are available to you in each and every moment.

You will never run out of choices.  You will never run out of options.  You will never run out of opportunities.  You will never get it all done, Dear One.

You will never reach the end of what is possible for you.  Never.

Do you know the difference between a limit and a boundary, Dear One?

• A boundary is self-imposed and can be changed
• A limit is a finite physical reality

You may not want to get on an airplane because you have a fear of flying.

You may not want to jump off of a cliff and try to fly (unaided) because you don’t have wings.

Do you see the difference?

• Limits should be honored.
• Boundaries should be pushed, stretched, or broken down every chance you get.

Mistake one for the other and you run the risk of unnecessarily cutting yourself off from a whole world of amazing possibilities, joys, pleasures, and experiences.

Not having feathers is a good reason not to try and fly, being afraid is not.

Yes, Dear One, being in a committed relationship is absolutely essential to living a happy life.

If you are not already in one, we suggest that you get yourself into one ASAP.

We want to see you make an authentic, joyful, loving, passionate, compassionate, forgiving, life long commitment to someone.

Yourself.

It will be the most important, sacred, and fulfilling commitment you will ever make.

We promise you that.

We know who you are, Dear One.

And we know why you’re here.

We knew who you were before you decided to incarnate into this physical reality.

And we remember why you decided to do so.

• And it had nothing to do with winning, proving a point, achieving success, or gaining control.
• And it had nothing to do with being right, famous, rich, popular, envied or thin either.

Do you want to know who you are, Dear One?

You are a powerful creator with the ability to manifest anything your heart desires.  You are an essential part of all that is.  You are eternal. You are divine. And you never can and never will be anything less. You are someone who is deeply needed, valued, cherished, loved and adored.

Do you want to know why you choose to be here?

To enjoy the experience of it.

Now you know too.

You want to be surrounded by more people who “get you”, Dear One?

We’ll tell you how to do it.

Don’t go in search of them.

Reveal more of yourself, reveal more of who you really are to the world in all that you do, and they will find you!

“Deserve” is not a word that makes sense to us, Dear One.  It is not a word that has any value or meaning to us at all.

Why?  Because you all are equal in the eyes of spirit. And so the idea that one person could be more deserving, and one person could be less deserving, just does not compute with us.

From our perspective, what you have (or don’t have), Dear One, is of your own design, is the result of your own creating, is your own creation. Whether you created it consciously or unconsciously matters not. The outcome is still the same.

You are who you are, and have what you have because you allowed for it, because you created it, because you found alignment with it, and granted yourself access to it.

It is absolutely NOT because some wish was granted, or some punishment was doled out based how deserving you are, based on what you (or they)  do or do not “deserve”.

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How do you achieve mastery of your own heart, Dear One?

You trust it.

Trust your intuition, Dear One.