Here’s a good one for you, Dear One.

Don’t’ wonder if it’s all going to be okay in the end.

Know that it will be.

Why?

Because it’s true.

And because believing it will feel a whole lot better than not believing it while you are in the process of getting there.

Yes, there is much for you to feel badly about, Dear One.

There are many reasons for you to be sad.

And there is a lot for you to be angry, hurt, disappointed, distressed, and resentful about too.

If those are the things that you want to choose to give your attention to, to focus on, then by all means go right ahead and do so.

But you should know that there are just as many joyful, peaceful, inspiring, loving, hopeful, helpful, good feeling options available to you as well, whenever you are ready to choose them.

Why do their feelings about you impact you so Dear One?  Why does their emotional state, what they feel and think about you have so much effect on you?

That’s easy.

The reason that their feelings towards you distress you, hurt you, worry you, upset you so much is because you believe that you are lacking in some way Dear One, that you are lacking something that you can only get from them.

But the truth of it is Dear One, that that there is nothing that you can get from anyone else that you can not get, attract, acquire, or create on your own.  The truth of it is that you are not beholden to anyone, for anything.

No one can give or take anything from you.  The idea that you have in your mind that they can is simply an illusion.  You and you alone are in control, are responsible for what you allow into your life, into your experience, and what you keep out of it.

They are nothing more than a mirror Dear One, reflecting back to you your belief of that which you believe you are worthy of receiving and that which you believe you are not.

Make sense?

• Be kind
• Be caring
• Be complementary
• Be truthful
• Be sincere
• Be thoughtful in all you say and do
• Be compassionate and forgiving
• Be honest
• Be respectful
• Be open minded
• Release expectations
• Encourage passions
• Acknowledge feelings
• Have lots of fun

These are just some of the things that you do for someone that you love, Dear One.

And we would like to encourage you to start doing all of them, everyday, for yourself.

We have something very important to tell you Dear One.
Something that we really want you to understand.

Here goes:

You are not now, nor have you ever been, out of control.
It’s just not possible.
Whether you believe it or not, changes nothing.
You are in control.
You are the one running the show. You are the one calling the shots.
You always have been, and you always will be.
Nothing you do ever, can or will change that.

Here’s why:

You are vibrational being Dear One, living in a vibrational universe.
What you put out there, what you give your attention to, what you focus on, what you ask for, is what you get back.
Without exception.

Nothing can come into your experience without an invitation.

That is just the way it works.

How much more in control could you hope to be?

Do you want to know where you belong, Dear One?

You belong in a place that makes you happy.  You belong with people that you love and that love you.  You belong wherever it is that you feel strong, supported, powerful, and creative.  You belong where you feel encouraged, inspired, and energized, hopeful, courageous, accepted and safe.

That is where you belong, Dear One.

If, when you look around you, you find that you are not in a place like this, then perhaps it is time for you to acknowledge that where you are, might not be the right place for you.

There are two ways that you can choose to respond to any situation Dear One:

• Like a victim of your circumstance
• Like the powerful creator that you are

Which will you choose today?

Contrary to popular belief (and practice) Dear One, healing does just happen.

Your very vital and active role in the process is to allow it to happen.

And if you should need them, the doctors, counselors, teachers, or healer’s role, is to help you to do it.

No one, and we mean absolutely no one is perfect, Dear One.  And yet – at the same time, you are all absolute perfection.

This is not just another one of life’s contradictions that you are meant to accept and move on.  It is simply an answer from two different vantage points.

From your physical perspective, when you align your thoughts with your physical self, perfection is not possible.  People can deceive themselves with an illusion and think that it is attainable, but we can assure you that it is not. Preferences are real Dear One, perfection does not exist.

BUT when you choose to align yourself with your spiritual identity, with your spiritual self, then yes, you are perfect – all of you – each and everyone one of you is a perfect soul, a glorious spark of the divine, a piece of all that is.

You are both physical and spiritual at once Dear One. Don’t try so hard to keep these parts of yourself separated from one another.  Open yourself up so that you can see/share/experience both realities simultaneously – your spiritual perfection and your physical imperfections.  You are spectacular any way you look at it.

Allow both of these identities to come into focus at once and live your life authentically, auspiciously and fully awake.

Embrace both your spiritual and physical self at once and you will see a new world emerge before you eyes, boundaries will shift and limitations will disappear.

Pay attention Dear One.

Look. Listen. Feel. Engage. Connect.

Because amazing things are happening, all around you, all the time.

And if you are not seeing them, you can be sure that you are missing out.