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What do you want to know about your soul’s agenda?
On: How to not quit
When is it that you typically start thinking about quitting, Dear One?
What we have witnessed is that it is usually when you find yourself in a situation/experiencing something, that makes you feel as if you are not succeeding, as if you are failing.
You typically want to quit when you think that you can’t finish, win or cope, or when you do not see enough evidence of success.
Well you should know, Dear One, that the only time that you will ever find evidence of failure, or of a lack of success, is when you go looking for it.
So don’t.
On: The power of neglect
What is the best way that you can think of, Dear One, to lose a relationship with someone or something that you love?
What has experience taught you?
We’ll remind you of just a few:
- You can ignore it
- Disregard it
- Take it for granted
- Stop respecting it
- Stop engaging with it
- Withhold your whole heart from it
- Remove your attention from it
- Quit putting time and energy into it
If you did all or even some of these things in a relationship with something that you cared for, be it a person, a pet, a hobby, a talent, a project, a job, your health, etc., experience has taught you that over time the result would be that your connection to it would fade. And if you did it long enough, your relationship with it would eventually end altogether.
Well, the same holds true for relationships with people and things that you don’t love, that you don’t care for, that you don’t want in your life anymore too.
You don’t have to fight, struggle, work or try as hard as you’ve been trying to eliminate those things in your life that you don’t want there anymore, Dear One.
Simply start neglecting them and it won’t be long before they will leave on their own accord too.
On: Would it make a difference?
What if, in this moment, Dear One, you decided to love yourself unconditionally; to nurture yourself, to honor yourself, to forgive, care for and prioritize yourself, to accept yourself exactly where and as you are?
What if, in this moment, you decided to remember that you are worthy, that you are divine, that the reason that you are here is to find alignment, experience balance, and enjoy being alive?
If you did this now, Dear One, would it make a difference? Would the next choice that you make, the next answer that you give, the next action that you take, the next words that you speak, the next thought that you think, be any different?
On: Claiming your independence
The realization that you are bound by nothing, Dear One, except for the limitations that you place on yourself, your beliefs, your choices, and your own imagination – that is what true independence is.
On: Opening to your present
It would serve you well to remember, Dear One, that this day is a gift.
- A gift that can mend your heart, if you are willing to let go of a hurt
- A gift that can heal your body, if you willing to let go of resistance
- A gift that can soothe your soul, if you are willing to let go of hatred and anger
And all you need to do to receive your gift, is to trust and open up to your present.
On: There is always something you can do about it
You can never undo that which has been done, Dear One.
It’s impossible.
So please don’t waste your precious time and energy trying.
Once you have had an experience, for better or for worse, it is yours forever.
And regardless of how deeply you wish it could be so, no amount of regret, guilt, remorse, anger, self-pity, self-loathing, sadness, or hatred is ever going to change that.
But know this, that you are never without options, that there is always something that you can do.
It is always within your power, Dear One, to change the way that you feel about it, to change what it means to you, to change its significance in your life.
And changing that, changes everything.
On: Eyes front
Keep looking forward, Dear One, no matter what.
Where you are going matters so much more than where you have been.
On: You can’t have it both ways
You can’t punish yourself for making a mistake, misjudgment, or misstep, Dear One, and come back into alignment, return to your flow, make it right again, at the same time.
You’re going to have to choose, one or the other.
You’re going to have to decide which is more important to you; returning to well-being and restoring balance, or remaining self-critical.
What’s it going to be?
On: Coming into alignment
What kind of life do you want to live, Dear One?
- What kind of person do you want to be?
- What kind of work do you want to do?
- What kind of impact to do you want to make?
- What kind of impression do you want to leave behind?
Do your thoughts, words, actions, values, beliefs and attitude align with your desires?
If they don’t, do you think that perhaps you could pay closer attention to your choices and make the necessary adjustments so that they do?
There is nothing more exciting, fulfilling or empowering, Dear One, then identifying a desire and then choosing your way into alignment with it.
And there is nothing that we would love more than to see you have that experience.
On: The fix
Instead on trying to fix it, Dear One, prioritize peace.
Make allowing, creating, and embracing peace within yourself your priority above all else.
Do what we are telling you and watch as things begin to fix themselves.
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