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What do you want to know about your soul’s agenda?
On: When you don’t know the answer
So, you don’t know the answer. Now what?
Relish in the fact that you don’t know the answer, Dear One.
Because it is actually a really good thing.
It means that you are not acting from a place of habit, that you are awake and that your decision will not being controlled by an automatic habitual behavior or pattern.
And this is a very good thing, A great thing actually.
Not having the answer is good.
Not know what to do next is good.
Next time this happens to you Dear One, try not to sweat it, and try not to “think” about what the answer should be. Try not to turn back to your logical brain to see what habit dictates the answer should be.
Allow yourself to “feel” for the answer instead.
Allow your feelings, your heart, your intuition to guide you instead.
And TRUST that there is a very good reason that your logical, habitual brain did not automatically reply, and is asking you to look elsewhere for the answer, is giving you the opportunity to give your heart a chance to speak up and be heard.
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On: Got a bad feeling?
Do you want to know the best way to get past a bad feeling as quickly as you can possibly can?
- Don’t fight it
- Don’t fear it
- Don’t ignore it
- Don’t try and stop it, change it, hide it, or run from it
Getting mad at it won’t work either.
If you want to get past a bad feeling, Dear One, let it come.
And then once it does, let it go again.
The sooner that you do, the sooner you can move on without it.
On: Getting in the drivers seat
- If you want change, change
- If you want love, love
- If you want respect, respect
- If you want to heal, allow healing, strength, confidence and well being to dominate every word you speak, every thought you think, and every action you take.
Make the decision in your heart first, commit to taking action on its behalf, and then watch as the universe yields to it.
Contrary to how it might feel at times, you should know that it is you, Dear One, your heart, your beliefs, thoughts, words, and actions that are commanding the powers of universe, and not the other way around.
On: Being disciplined
Discipline is a mindset, Dear One, an attitude, an approach, a guide, a commitment.
It is not a contract, a commandment, an order, a doctrine, or a law that must be followed.
Discipline is flexible, malleable, adaptable, and strong.
It is not hard, rigid, tough, and unforgiving.
Discipline is the boat on the water, Dear One, not the rope tethering you to the dock.
It is the compass pointing your way, not the points plotted out on a map
It is the sail, and not the anchor.
Practicing discipline should strengthen you, empower you, guide you, help you to feel stronger, freer, more connected and in-synch with the world around you. Not frustrate you, weaken you, and leave you feeling depleted and restricted.
If what you are practicing is not not serving you in all of these positive ways, Dear One, there is a very good chance that what you are practicing is not discipline at all, but that you are just being hard on yourself, and that is not the same thing.
On: Absolutes
The trouble, Dear One is that you think that you live in a world of absolutes. And you don’t. The world does not work that way. There are no absolutes in life – except one.
The one thing that you can always absolutely rely on is the fact that you will always have a choice. Always, always, always do you have options, in every single situation. Every one – without fail.
Whenever you feel frustrated, helpless, trapped or as if you are moving in the wrong direction – stop and remind yourself that there are choices available to you in that moment. If the thoughts that you are thinking are not bringing you joy – choose different ones. If the company that you are keeping is not pleasurable for you – change it. If you have set standards for yourself that you consistently find yourself falling short of, and feeling badly about, change them.
It can be that simple, Dear One, if you choose to allow it to be.
On: What’s in a name?
Friend, boyfriend, lover, wife, spouse, partner, neighbor, sister, brother, cousin, best friend, confidant, significant other, soul mate, buddy, companion, associate, cohort or chum.
You have lots of ways of defining, categorizing and labeling your relationships, Dear One. And we realize that these measures can be greatly varied, intricately complicated, highly emotional, and hold a great deal of significance for you. We know that they strongly influence and in some cases totally determine how you act towards someone, how you think, feel and react around them, and your expectations of them. We get it. We really do understand.
But from where we are standing there truly is only one measure by which all relationships are defined, categorized and labeled — and that measure is the amount of love shared.
As we see it, how you choose to define a relationship is so much less significant than the amount of love that you choose to bring to it and allow yourself to experience within it.
So, what is in a name, Dear One?
As far as we are concerned, as long as there is love there, not a whole hell of a lot.
On: Assessing risk
Know that there is no greater risk that you can take, Dear One, than not following your heart.
On: Why try again
There is no such thing as impossible Dear One. There are only those things that you have not yet seen come to pass.
There is a huge difference between never and not yet.
Practice saying “not yet” instead of “never” and everything changes.
Never closes doors.
Not yet blows them wide open.
On: Being Wrong vs. Doing Wrong
One of the most destructive things you can do to yourself, Dear One, is to do something that you believe is wrong for yourself.
Know that it will always be better for you to follow your heart, and run the risk of unintentionally being wrong, than to ignore it, and intentionally do something that feels wrong to it.
On: Understanding jealousy
Unlike what many of you may believe, jealousy Dear One, has very little to do with lack, or wanting, or shortage, or envy, or greed, or want, and everything to do with powerlessness, with believing yourself to be powerless, not in control, a victim of life, and of your circumstances.
Jealousy, Dear One, is something that only happens, that only can happen, when you truly believe that you are not the creator of your world.
People that are aware, that know what they are truly capable of, people that take full and total responsibility for their lives, that believe that they are the creators of their lives, that believe that they are responsible for everything that they have, and everything that they don’t have, and everything that does and does not happen to them, really have no need or use for jealousy.
Make sense?