Do you know where your place is Dear One?  Do you know where it is that you belong?

If you are uncertain, we can help you figure it out.

• You belong in the place that makes you happy.
• You belong in the place that makes you feel good about yourself.
• You belong with people that you love, and that love you back.
• You belong in the place where you feel strong, supported, empowered, powerful, and creative.
• You belong wherever it is that you feel encouraged, inspired, and energized, hopeful, courageous, accepted and safe.

Are you there?

If, when you look around, you find that you are not in this place, that you do not feel these things, then perhaps you may want to consider the possibility that where you are might not be the right place for you after all, and that it might be time for you to move along.

• Who said that it was too hard Dear One?
• Who said that you couldn’t do it?
• Who said that you were not worth the effort?
• Who said that your way was the wrong way?
• Who said that you didn’t know better?
• Who said that your opinion didn’t matter?
• Who said don’t even bother trying?

And who chose to believe that they were right?

If feeling better, being happy, creating balance, and enjoying this moment, was your top priority Dear One, what would you be doing right now?

Well…?

What are you waiting for?

There are few things in this world that are worse for you Dear One, that hold more potential for disaster, then moving forward in fear, then doing something that you truly don’t believe that you are capable of doing, then doing something that you are afraid to do, that you don’t want to do, that you believe is going to harm you.

And accepting your fears as reality, allowing them to define you, to restrict you, to tie you up and chain you down to one place, to one mindset, to one set of limiting beliefs, for the rest of your natural born life, is one of them.

There is no race that you must win to achieve success Dear One
So you don’t need to push yourself to work harder or faster than you already are

There is no line that you must cross either
So you don’t need to travel farther than you or anyone else has ever traveled before

There is no amount that you must accumulate
So you don’t need figure out how to earn more, sell more, make more, or get more

There is no title that you must earn
So don’t need to continually climb the ladder to get to the next highest rung

There is no level of notoriety that you must achieve
So you don’t need to figure out how earn more likes, more views, more friends, more recognition, more, more more

There is only a life for you to live
And if you want to be a successful at it, all you need to do is absolutely everything that you possibly can to make sure that you are enjoying the experience of living it

If you are unsure of what it means to love yourself Dear One, of what it looks like to love yourself, of what you are meant to do, of how you are meant to think, speak act, and behave towards yourself in ways that are loving, we will tell you precisely what you can do to figure it out.

Think of someone that you love very much, deeply, purely, totally, and completely.  Imagine how you would care for them, speak to them, think of them, feed them, comfort, them, react and respond to them if they came to you confused, unsure or in need, with a question, a problem, or hurt feelings, with a broken heart, body or spirit.

• Have you got it?
• Are you picturing it?
• Can you imagine what you would do for them?
• Can you imagine how you would treat them?

If you can, then you’ve just found your answer.

We have something very important to tell you Dear One.
Something that we really want you to understand.

Here goes:

You are not now, nor have you ever been, out of control.
It’s just not possible.
Whether you believe it or not, changes nothing.
You are in control.
You are the one running the show. You are the one calling the shots.
You always have been, and you always will be.
Nothing you do ever, can or will change that.

Here’s why:

You are vibrational being Dear One, living in a vibrational universe.
What you put out there, what you give your attention to, what you focus on, what you ask for, is what you get back.
Without exception.

Nothing can come into your experience without an invitation.

That is just the way it works.

How much more in control could you hope to be?

The most important question that you need to ask yourself Dear One, once you decide what it that you want is not Can I do this? but Will I do this?

• Will you allow yourself to believe that its possible?
• Will you allow that belief to inspire you to action?
• Will you allow certainty to dominate your thoughts?
• Will you choose to move forward with confidence?
• Will you choose to make feeling good about it a priority?
• Will you choose to let go of all of the things that no longer serve you, including negative thoughts, actions, behaviors, and relationships that are keeping you from it?
• Will you choose to allow it into your life, gently, quickly, graciously, joyfully?

We know that you can Dear One.

But will you?

Why bother being authentic Dear One?

Why bother being honest? Why bother speaking your truth?

Why bother being thoughtful, generous, loving, persistent, patient and kind?

Why should you put in the extra effort to make the tougher, braver, more challenging choice, when it seems like so many others do not?

Because what you put out is what you get back.

That’s why.

We have been asked time and time again Dear One:

• Does religion matter?
• Does politics matter?
• Does the news matter?
• Does art matter?
• Does their criticism matter? (or their praise)
• Does a lie matter?

And every time we are asked our answer is always the same – we have absolutely no idea at all what so ever.   It is not for us to say.

But what we can say to you with absolute certainty is this:

• Your opinions matter
• Your ideas matter
• Your beliefs matter
• Your actions matter
• Your feelings matter
• Your heart matters
• You matter