It only fades if you let it fade, Dear One – if you choose to let it go, day by day, choice by choice.

It only fades when you decide to allow something else to capture your attention, to distract you, to become more important.

You can choose to remember, or you can choose to forget.

But know, Dear One, that it is a choice and that it is yours to make.

The wait is over, Dear One, the moment that you decide it is, the moment that you want it to be, the moment that you choose.

If someone that you love, Dear One, is not living up to your expectations of them, instead of being disappointed, instead of trying to change them, instead of trying to fix them, instead of trying to force yourself to stop loving them in order to put an end to your unhappiness, why not simply change your expectation of them instead?

Don’t miss them, Dear One.

Close your eyes, open your heart and connect with them instead.

We would like you to practice kindness today, Dear One.

We would like for you to remember to be kind to yourself in response to all that you do and don’t do, and all that happens to you and those around you.

Without exception.

That is all.

If it’s not fun, pleasurable, serving to enhance, strengthen or deepen your understanding of your connection to source; if it is not rooted in love, if it does not generate loving creations, connections, or bonds, then, Dear One, you know….

…it’s just not worth it!

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What if we told you that there was no opposition, Dear One?

What if we told you that there was only you?

What if we told you that you; your thoughts, your actions, your beliefs, were the greatest, and only source of conflict in your life?

Would you respond them any differently, if you knew this to be true?

The realization that you are bound by nothing but your beliefs and the limits of your own imagination – That is what true independence is, Dear One.

Make a choice, Dear One. Make THE choice you have been struggling to make.

The moment that you make it you will be transformed.

You will not be the same after as you were before.

MAKING the choice IS the catalyst, Dear One.

What comes next, the outcome, the results are secondary, are the least significant part of the equation.

They matter of course, but so much less than you think they do.

The act of choosing, of deciding what action to take and then aligning/investing your energy into the act of taking it, THAT is the moment when everything changes.

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• You are not here to be liked, Dear One – You are here to be yourself and make connections.

• You are not here to find “The One” — You are here to know true love.

• You are not here to win awards — You are here to create, bravely, confidently, authentically, and from the heart.

• You are not here to accumulate wealth — You are here to have an experience of abundance.

• You are not here to achieve notoriety — You are here to learn just how powerful, creative, and capable you really are.

Are you starting to get the idea?