You are meant to love your life Dear One, not just tolerate it.  It is not an experience you are meant to simply endure.

• There are an infinite number of options available to you.
• There are an infinite number of experiences for you to choose from.

So when the choice is yours, why not make a point of choosing only those things that you want, that excite you, that inspire you, that motivate you, that comfort you, and bring you relief, satisfaction or joy?

You don’t get to decide everything in this life Dear One, but you do get to decide a lot, much more than you realize.

So what is it exactly that we trying to tell you?

Never settle.

Whatever it is Dear One, that is bothering you, irritating you, frustrating you, frightening you, intimidating you, discouraging you, or causing you anguish, pain or distress, deal with it, confront it, transform it, face it head on, or let it go.

Those really are the only two options available to you that are going to serve you in any useful or positive way.

Getting angry or resentful, denying what is, seeking revenge, indulging in self-pity, self-righteousness or self-importance, hiding, running away, or complaining to anyone who will listen, will only serve to prolong, intensify or increase your suffering.

But don’t take our word for it.  Try it and see for yourself. Experience really is a much better teacher than we ever could be.

If you are not being yourself Dear One, who cares what they think of you, who cares if they like you?

What would be the point really of getting someone to like some person that you are pretending to be?

Wishing it away Dear One, praying for it to disappear, hoping that it will exit your life forever, will not bring you any relief, will not change anything in any meaningful way for the better.

But imagining you life without it will!

Can you see and appreciate the difference?

When you think you’ve reached the end of the road Dear One, when you think that you’ve tried everything, when it looks like you’ve run out of options, and you’ve got no where else to turn, remember this:

You’ve always got at least one more choice to make.

As you know very well from experience Dear One, there are an unlimited number of paths that you can follow that will get you from here to there.

There is no one single “right” path that you must take to get where you are trying to go.

But there are more and less direct paths that you can follow to get you there.

Would you like to know how to get yourself on the most direct path there is?

Listen to your heart, follow your instincts, trust your intuition, act on your hunches and move forward with confidence, enthusiasm, and excitement knowing that you will find all that you need to succeed along the way.

• You are not here to be liked Dear One – You are here to be yourself and make connections.

• You are not here to find “The One” — You are here to know true love.

• You are not here to win awards — You are here to create, bravely, confidently, authentically, and from the heart.

• You are not here to accumulate wealth — You are here to have an experience of abundance.

• You are not here to achieve notoriety — You are here to learn just how powerful, creative, and capable you really are.

Are you starting to get the idea?

Do you want to know how to find someone who “gets you” Dear One?
Do you want to know what you need to do to surround yourself with more people who really “get” who you are?

We’ll tell you.

Don’t go in search of them. Don’t exert a great amount of time, energy and effort seeking them out.  There is no need.

Just be yourself.  Reveal more of yourself, of who you really are to the world around you and all of the people in it, in everthing that you do, as often as you possibly can, and they will find you!

If you truly want things to be different Dear One, you’re going to have to start thinking differently, believing differently and acting differently.

There is nothing that any force in the universe can do to help you, until you do

If someone that you love Dear One, is not living up to your expectations of them, instead of being disappointed, instead of trying to change them, instead of trying to fix them, instead of trying to force yourself to stop loving them in order to put an end to your unhappiness, why not simply change your expectation of them instead?

Just a suggestion.