Love is a choice Dear One.

The experience of it, the giving and receiving of it, does not just happen. You have to choose it, you have to choose to open yourself up to it, to allow it.

When two people make the decision to choose to experience it together, to give and receive it openly, freely, and confidently, to open themselves up to an experience of the divine and let love flow to them and through them, that is a sacred act, that is an example of a sacred union; a merging of you, them and the energy of all that is.

A holy man, a place of worship, a ritual, a doctrine, a document or a vow is not the force that makes the union sacred Dear One, you are.

Nothing happens in your life without your consent, without your permission, without you either consciously or unconsciously agreeing to it, allowing it, inviting it in. Nothing.

You want to have a different experience Dear One?

Stop consenting to this one.

We can see that you are patiently waiting Dear One; for someone to tell you what to do, or not to do, for lightening to strike, for the dam to break, for an answer to appear, for a hand to reach out and grab yours, for inspiration, for a brilliant idea, for something, anything to give you a clue, show you a sign, motivate you to action, push you in the right direction.

And the more that you do that, the longer that you wait, the more reasons, opportunities, and circumstances you are going to attract into your life that will allow you to continue to wait.

So unless what you are looking for is more of the same, more of what you’ve already got, waiting is most definitely not the answer for you.

You should know that waiting will never get you what you want, who you want, or where you want to go.

If you really want these things Dear One, the waiting needs to end, right now.

Now is not the time for you to be waiting, for anything or anyone anyway.

Now is the time for you to be creating.

Create Dear One, don’t wait, and you will begin to attract more creative energy into your life, more creative answers and solutions.

Create Dear One, at the wait will at long last, finally be over.

Why pray for, hope for, speak of, seek out change Dear One, if at every possible opportunity to embrace it you choose that which is known to you, that which is comfortable, that which is familiar, that which feels safe, over that which is new, different, unknown, uncertain or unpredictable instead?

Praying for, hoping for, talking about change is a  good start, but it’s not enough.

If you really want it, you’re going to have it prove it, to both the universe and to yourself.

And that only way you can do that , is to choose it.

So why not start by choosing to believe that everything is going to be okay, and act accordingly.

Because the truth is Dear One, that it really will be.

How do you move beyond your limits Dear One?

Recognizing that limiting thoughts, beliefs, words and actions are just that, limiting, is a really great place to start.

Change is coming Dear One. It is headed your way right now.

While you are busy trying to decide whether or not you are ready for it, it is coming anyway.

The only say that you really have in the matter is whether or not you are going to recognize it, acknowledge it, embrace and accept it when it gets here.

You can choose not to if that is what you want.

But it is coming regardless Dear One.  There is no stopping it.

If you don’t like something the way that it is Dear One, let it be.

That’s right. You heard us correctly.

Don’t try to fix it, fight it, change it, improve it or make it better in any way.

Simply let it be exactly as it is and make the decision to shift your attention towards that which is wanted instead.

Doing so will be a much more efficient, effective and pleasant use of your time.

Trust us.

Do you want to know how to be loved the way that you want to be loved Dear One?

Love yourself well.

Show them how it’s done.

We promise you Dear One, that everything will be ok, that you will never be without us, that there is no limit to what is possible for you, that inspiration is divine guidance and that following it will never lead you astray, that you will always be beautiful in the eyes of spirit, that you will be loved for all of eternity, that there is always an answer, that you are never trapped, that you can heal from anything, that nothing lasts forever, that if you can imagine it you can create it, and that we always keep our promises.

Regardless of just how sticky things may get Dear One, you should know that you always have two options available to you at all times:

• Create more of what is by focusing your attention on it
• Create less of what is by focusing your attention elsewhere

Remember that despite the way that things may look, you are always the one in control of determining just how stuck you allow yourself to become in any situation.