Holding on, staying small, keeping quiet, playing it safe, maintaining the familiar is not going to protect you Dear One, is not going to serve you, is not going to lessen the pain, frustration, confusion, discomfort, or lack of abundance in your life.

Open your heart, open your mind, open your eyes, open your mouth.

Open up wide Dear One, wider than you ever have before and let in the light, make room for something new, create space for something different.

Listen to what we are telling you Dear One.

It really is the safest, most effective and most pleasurable route out of any undesired state or situation there is.

At long last, here is the answer that you have been looking for Dear One.

How to make them all happy, in two easy steps:

STEP 1
Make yourself happy, do that which brings you happiness, because you can’t share something with someone else that you don’t first possess yourself.

STEP 2
Teach them by example what it looks like to take responsibility for creating your own happiness, because in the end, if they really want to be happy, they are going to have to learn how to choose it for themselves.

Never feel guilty about taking care of yourself Dear One, for putting yourself first, regardless of what anyone else has to say about it.

Those that give you a hard time just don’t yet understand how vitally important it is for you to do so – for you, for them and for the rest of the world.

If you are not healthy, happy, balanced, and strong, you will be of little or no use to anyone, including yourself.

Someone’s got to teach them Dear One.  Someone’s got to show them how it is done.

Why not you?

You asked for our help Dear One, and we want you to know that it would be our great pleasure to give it to you. And we will start by asking you a question in return.

Do you truly believe that you are unable to help yourself in this situation, or is it that you are simply unwilling to do so?

• Because if it is the former, we would like to remind you that you are a powerful creator with the innate ability to attract to yourself, and to create for yourself, anything that your heart desires simply by asking for it, by bringing yourself into vibrational alignment with it, by focusing your attention on it (as opposed to focusing your attention on the lack of it).  We would also like to remind you that we are, always have been and always will be, here to help you do that, to guide you, to support you, to create with you, and to bring to you that which you are wanting, without question. And to take advantage of our help Dear One, all you’ve got to do is trust, open your heart, and ask.
• And if your answer was the latter, then please re-read our reply above.

This is your life Dear One.

• Love it
• Hate it
• Enjoy it
• Waste it
• Share it
• Expand it
• Embrace it
• Fear it
• Trust it
• Celebrate it
• Worry it away

Whatever you choose to do with it, is totally and completely up to you.

Where are you headed today Dear One?

In what direction are you planning on traveling?

What is it that you are hoping, wanting, desiring to come across on your path today?

• Are you confidently, enthusiastically, and joyously anticipating its arrival?
• Are you looking forward to finding it, creating it, having it, experiencing it?
• Or, are you focused on your lack of it, your distance from it, on how you will feel if you can’t find it, miss it, or never reach it?

Are your using your thoughts to bring you more into alignment with that which is wanted or that which is not?

In this moment Dear One, do you think you moving closer to or farther away from your desired destination?

Answer these questions, and you will know!

Among all of the many wonderful, curious, creative, exciting, and perplexing reasons that you have come forth into this physical reality Dear One, you should know that expressing your judgment and being judgmental is not one of them.

You are here to love, to heal, to grow, to connect, to create, and to experience as much joy as you possible can, as often as you possibly can.

You are not here to judge Dear One.

And now that you know, you can feel free to stop doing so anytime that you would like.

We know that you know who you are Dear One.

And we know that you know what you are capable of.

How do we know that you know?

Because the answer to both is whatever you decide that it is.

Remember that while you are making up your mind.

We have an unsolicited piece of advice for you today Dear One.

And here it is:

Don’t fight your heart, follow it.

Why?

Because in the battle between your head and your heart, your heart is always going to win Dear One, every single time, eventually.

And by making the choice to listen to it now, to take action on its behalf sooner rather than later, not only will you be saving yourself a great deal of time, but you will be saving yourself from experiencing a whole heap of unnecessary frustration, grief, aggravation, and heartbreak.

Sometimes the best solution to a problem Dear One, is to simply allow yourself to forget that it exists at all.

Give all of your attention to that which is wanted, to that which is desired, to that which makes you feel good, great, or giddy with delight and let all of the rest fade away.

When you do, you will discover that one of two things will happen:

1. That once you’ve move on from it, once you’ve let it go, that your problem too will let go of you.
2. That all that you need to solve it, that the solution that you have been looking for, will be there waiting for you when you arrive in that better feel place.