Now is the time to lighten up Dear One.

It really is okay to not take it all so seriously – whatever it is – even the really, big, important, seriously scary stuff.

We say this to you not to disrespect, trivialize, dismiss or belittle whatever very difficult, important or challenging situation, circumstance or event you might be dealing with at the moment.

We say this to you to help you to remember that you can choose to approach it, deal with it, and move past it with ease, grace, joy, confidence and levity just as easily as you can with intensity, struggle, stress, drama, fear, and doubt.

We are not going to try to encourage you, convince you or teach you how to achieve the impossible Dear One.   That would be a waste of our time and yours.  By definition, the impossible cannot be done.   We would never encourage you to pursue that which you are convinced you can not do.

Instead, we are going to encourage you to dream bigger and focus your attention on that which you believe is possible, on those things that you believe can be accomplished.

Set out in pursuit of those things Dear One, and accomplish them.

Feel that satisfaction that comes along with completing a task, with accomplishing a goal.  And then, when you have sufficiently built up your confidence, when you are feeling good about your self and your abilities, we want you to revisit, re-examine those things that once seemed impossible to you and see if your perception of them has changed at all.

If it has – Wonderful!  You will then be ready to take them on.  And if it has not, then we would like you to go back and repeat the process.

Remember Dear One, something is only impossible when you believe it is.  Therefore everything is impossible and nothing is impossible. And the best part is – you get to choose which is true for you.

So, what’s it going to be today?

The more you respect and honor your teachers Dear One, the more you will learn from them, the more you will grow with them, the wiser you will become.

And one of the greatest teachers that you’ve got, that is available to you at all times, is your intuition.

And the best way for you to honor it, to show your respect, and strengthen the connection between you, is to listen to it, trust it, and take action on its behalf, as often as you possibly can.

Having a bad day  Dear One?

Trust us, it won’t last.  Experience has already taught you that it won’t, it never does.

The quicker that you can remember that, that quicker that you can get back to focusing your attention on that which is working, on those things that you love, that bring you joy, that make you laugh, that inspire you, that trigger in you feelings of gratitude, hope, excitement, love, and anticipation, the quicker it will pass.

How long will that take?

Well, that is entirely up to you.

Your heart does not have an off switch Dear One.  It is always on.

It is always talking to you. It is always guiding you. It is always showing you the way.

When you can’t hear it, and all you can hear is the voice in your head, the voice of fear, insecurity, doubt, judgment, concern, guilt, lack, or despair, it is does not mean that your heart has shut down, is unavailable, or that it does not have wisdom to share with you.

It simply means that in that moment you are choosing to focus your attention elsewhere.

The voice that you give your attention to Dear One, is the one that you will hear the loudest.

If you want to turn the volume back up on your heart, so that you can hear it loud and clear, so that it is the dominate voice within you, simply choose to give your undivided attention to it.

Do this and it won’t take long before all of the other negative rumblings within you coming from the general vicinity of your head, become nothing more than a faint and distant murmur in the background.

Yes Dear One, being in a committed relationship is absolutely essential to living a happy life.

If you are not already in one, we suggest that you get yourself into one ASAP.

We want to see you make an authentic, joyful, loving, passionate, compassionate, forgiving, life long commitment to someone.

Yourself.

It will be the most important, sacred and fulfilling committment you will ever make.

We promise you that.

The only way you’ll ever know for sure Dear One, the only way to be absolutely certain, is to try it and see.

Your time is your own Dear One, to do with as you please.

Don’t worry about running out of it – you can’t- you are eternal.

Don’t worry about wasting it – you can’t – you are divine – all that you do is significant.

• Spend it taking risks, loving, laughing, creating, helping, enjoying yourself, being brave
• Spend it fulfilling obligations, doubting, playing it safe, worrying, struggling, being afraid
• Spend it doing things that you love, or spend it doing things that you hate.

Spend it any way that you would like.

But know this Dear One, that no one can take it from you, and no one can spend it for you.

Time is yours, to do with as you please and what you do with it is totally and completely up to you.

So how are you going to use it to please yourself today?

Sometimes the very best way that you can pay it back Dear One, that you can show your gratitude and appreciation, is to say thank you, mean it, and continue forward, joyously on your journey.