What we know, Dear One, that you might not, is that the only force in the universe that is capable of preventing you from doing, being, having, accomplishing, creating, or completing anything that you want, is you.

Do you want to know which of your relationships are sustainable Dear One, and which are not?

If you do, ask yourself this question:

• At its core, is the connection one that is based on a foundation of growth, or one of attachment?

One of the two is sustainable, and the other is not.

It’s just that simple.

But remember this; that letting go of the attachment does not necessarily mean letting go of the relationship.  It could mean that.  But it could also be the start of something new, something different, something really great.

Be patient, Dear One.

• Not because it is a virtue
• Not because we are asking you to
• Not because it is the adult, polite, enlightened or spiritual thing to do

We want you to be patient Dear One, because the energy of impatience only serves to hold you apart from all of the things that you have been wanting, needing, hoping, and praying for.

Your time is your own, Dear One, to do with as you please.

Don’t worry about running out of it – you can’t- you are eternal.

Don’t worry about wasting it – you can’t – you are divine – all that you do is significant.

• Spend it taking risks, loving, laughing, creating, helping, enjoying yourself, being brave
• Spend it fulfilling obligations, doubting, playing it safe, worrying, struggling, being afraid
• Spend it doing things that you love, or spend it doing things that you hate.

Spend it any way that you would like.

But know this Dear One, that no one can take it from you, and no one can spend it for you.

Time is yours, to do with as you please and what you do with it is totally and completely up to you.

It is only scary before you try, Dear One, before you know.

If you want to move past the fear, you’re going to have to do it, you’re going to have to start.

Take a deep breath, let it go, and begin again.

Starting over can be as easy as that, Dear One, if you let it be.

Are you troubled by what is, Dear One, or by your anticipation of what might, could, may, someday, possibly come to pass?

It is worth taking a moment to figure out, because the answer just may provide you with a great deal of immediate relief.

Are you anticipating less than desirable outcomes, unpleasant circumstances or unwanted results?

If you are going to project yourself into the future via your thoughts, why not project yourself into a future that is pleasant, wonderful, joyous, balanced, prosperous, full of love and that feels good?

If you get to choose the thoughts that you think, which oh by the way you do, why would you choose to imagine yourself anywhere but where it is you really want to be?

Change your thoughts Dear One, and you just may find that you have much less to be troubled about than you originally thought you did.

Most of the challenges, struggles and issues in your life, Dear One, would resolve themselves beautifully if only you would remember to choose to take care of yourself first – to nurture, honor, love, and respect yourself first – to create, to discover, to experience a good feeling place for yourself, first.

Why pray for, hope for, speak of, seek out change, Dear One, if at every possible opportunity to embrace it you choose that which is known to you, that which is comfortable, that which is familiar, that which feels safe, over that which is new, different, unknown, uncertain or unpredictable instead?

Praying for, hoping for, talking about change is a  good start, but it’s not enough.

If you really want it, you’re going to have it prove it, to both the universe and to yourself.

And the only way you can do that , is to choose it.

So why not start by choosing to believe that everything is going to be okay, and act accordingly.

Because the truth is, Dear One, that it really will be.

At long last, here is the answer that you have been looking for, Dear One.

How to make them all happy, in two easy steps:

STEP 1
Make yourself happy, do that which brings you happiness, because you can’t share something with someone else that you don’t first possess yourself.

STEP 2
Teach them by example what it looks like to take responsibility for creating your own happiness, because in the end, if they really want to be happy, they are going to have to learn how to choose it for themselves.