Making a decision Dear One, does not need to be such an amazingly complicated, confusing, stress inducing, emotionally painful experience, don’t you know.

Release your expectations of them,Dear One.

Let them follow their bliss, and you follow yours.

Your happiness is not at all dependent on what they choose to do next.

It is solely and completely dependent on what you choose to do next.

And you can choose to say, think, or do anything that you would like.

What more could you possibly want from the moment, Dear One, from them, from yourself or from the universe, then the freedom to choose?

And that you’ve got.

So, are you ready to let them off the hook and start choosing for yourself?

If you want to see more love in the world Dear One, start giving yours away more freely.

Don’t worry.  You won’t run out.

The more you open you heart, the more you’ll have to give.

Open your heart Dear One.

Start spreading it around.

The path of least resistance does not lead to sameness Dear One, it leads to change.

How?

We’ll explain.

The world is constantly changing, all the time.  Everything within and around you is always in a state of change.  It is either growing or decaying, without exception.

In each and every moment of your life you are changing too, you are different, you are not the same person, in the same environment that you were the moment before, and therefore do not have the same perspective that you had the moment before.

So therefore while you may think that doing nothing will lead to nothing and will result in everything remaining unchanged, it is just not true.  The truth Dear One, is actually that if you do nothing, absolutely nothing but allow life to flow and yourself to flow along with it, no moment, no day, no experience in your life will ever be the same, could ever be the same, as it was the moment before.

Can you see that?

Sameness requires effort. Sameness requires action. Sameness can only happen if you choose to create it, if you choose to do, and be, and say, and think something over and over and over again in an environment of constantly changing conditions.

Can you see that?

You feel the way that you feel Dear One, because you think the way that you think, you act the way that you act, you behave the way that you behave, you choose the way that you choose, you speak the way that you speak, and you believe the way that you believe.

Can you see that?

We are not saying that you are to blame for the way that you are feeling, but we are saying that you are responsible for it.

And the beauty of believing us, the beauty of accepting that what we are telling you is true is that once you do, once you accept that responsibility, you will never again have to feel victimized by your emotions because you will know that you have the ability to change them, or to react differently to them, if that is something that you would like to do.

If you are waiting for things to get better before you think a better thought, Dear One, you could be waiting a long time.

If you think a better thought right now, things would start getting better right now.

So, it looks like you’ve got a decision to make.

Do you want things to start getting better now or do you want to continue to wait?

What is your intuition telling you in this moment Dear One? Can you hear it?

It is speaking to you all the time. Offering you guidance. Telling you what you need to know, about yourself, your choices, your health, your relationships, your work, your finances, everything. Guiding you towards that which you want most for yourself. That which is for your greatest good, without the limiting influences of fear.  And yet, more often than not you choose to ignore it. Why is that? Why, for even one moment, would you choose to disregard or ignore this very clear, precise and always accurate internal guidance system?

We believe there are 2 reasons:

1- You have ignored it for so long that you hardly even recognize it or hear it any more.

2- Acting on your intuition requires courage. The courage to trust in yourself.

There is only one way to get past these hurdles Dear One.

Be Brave.  Start Listening.  Trust Yourself.

So, what is your intuition telling you to do now?

Standing in front of a well-stocked refrigerator will not make you any less hungry, Dear One.

Sandwiches do not magically make themselves.

Happiness works in much the same way.

If you want some (or more), you’re going to have to reach out (or in) and help yourself.

Maybe you are not lost at all, Dear One.

Maybe you are simply in the process of moving into someplace new, someplace better, someplace you have never been before.

Did you ever think of that?

Do you want to know how you can know for sure Dear One, in any situation, if the choice you are about to make is the compassionate choice?

We will tell you.

The compassionate choice is always, without exception, the loving choice – loving to yourself and loving to them.

The compassionate choice will never make you choose between one or the other.

So if you are struggling with what to do Dear One, if you are wanting to make the compassionate choice, but you are finding yourself torn between choosing to be loving toward yourself OR loving towards them, then you can know for sure that the choice you are about to make is not the compassionate one, and you should allow yourself the freedom to choose again.